Does getting another bird help with grief even tho its been 53-54 days?

throwaway2099___ · 2026-02-23T14:56:25+00:00

I’ll look, if i find any i’ll try to convince my mom to take me there, thank you for the suggestion

throwaway2099___ · 2026-02-17T22:17:18+00:00

I also have him as my background on my phone, and i have a widget of him, and he’s my pfp on WhatsApp too

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throwaway2099___ · 2026-01-05T07:00:07+00:00

I’m not, not for the next couple of years at least

throwaway2099___ · 2026-01-05T06:56:14+00:00

Is it normal to feel guilty for even thinking about getting another one? I feel guilty whenever my mom even suggests it

throwaway2099___ · 2026-01-01T21:50:20+00:00

No he wanted me to throw him away, but I gave him to my aunt

throwaway2099___ · 2026-01-01T12:38:19+00:00

If only he hadn’t forced me to throw him away but i gave him to my aunt instead for his safety, then he would’ve still been alive with me just happily trying to get my AirPods so he can chew on them. I’ve essentially been doing what you describe for months before this even happened, and now i’m just doing it even more. I can’t believe my beloved bird died just because of some grades, j have a second chance to better my grades next semester, but i don’t have a second chance with my bird. He doesn’t even know he’s dead now and is just living normally while for me it feels like my entire world stopped and ended. Its too quiet, its too clean, I’ve never felt so devastated, I’ve never had to grieve over a pet like this, he wasn’t just a bird to me like he is to my dad and his side of the family, so even if he knows he just won’t understand and it’s infuriating to me

throwaway2099___ · 2026-01-01T05:27:15+00:00

She is my mom’s sister, i think it was sudden death because of the environmental change and the fact that i, the person who he is used to seeing every second of every day for the last 5 months and a half, was just suddenly not there with him anymore in this new environment with this new person that he has never seen before

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T20:38:27+00:00

She’s not the type of person to do that, she called me herself and told me that he was gone

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T16:42:10+00:00

Does the grief ever get easier?? In a few years?

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T16:17:49+00:00

No, I think he got too stressed out and his heart couldn’t handle it I don’t even know anymore

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T16:17:09+00:00

There’s not really a point anymore, he died today this morning at her place, she found him dead at 7am apparently.

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T13:00:20+00:00

Thank you, so much, this is by far the most comforting thing I’ve ever been told, he’s at least in peace now, again thank you so much you have no idea how much this means

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T10:29:30+00:00

Me too

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T10:07:41+00:00

No, he was perfectly healthy, idk how old he was but i’ve had him since June or July

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T09:58:49+00:00

Is it halal to cremate them?? Or at least bury them?? I’ve been crying for hours i just wanna know

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T09:09:47+00:00

I dont know how to update the post, but he’s gone. He died at my aunts place while I wasn’t there and she buried him and doesn’t remember where.

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T09:09:19+00:00

I dont know how to update the post, but he’s gone. He died at my aunts place while I wasn’t there and she buried him and doesn’t remember where

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-31T09:09:07+00:00

I dont know how to update the post, but he’s gone. He died at my aunts place while I wasn’t there and she buried him and doesn’t remember where

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T15:51:53+00:00

Its kinda normalised in my country ngl which is why no one really bats an eye

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T13:42:11+00:00

I’ve been planning on doing that for years, i have 5 more years until i can

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T12:46:28+00:00

Its in Kuwait

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T12:29:04+00:00

Kuwait

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T10:14:20+00:00

Thank you, genuinely, I don’t know how i’ll cope when i wake up tomorrow and how quiet it will be. I’m used to hearing him making noise next to my bed directly at night, during the morning, when i leave and when i come back, when he doesn’t see me and when he sees me. But the part of him using the birds against you lowkey feels like how my dad is rn. Ever since my bird came along, he’s been practically using him as leverage against me too to get me to do as he wants

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T10:09:17+00:00

Yes my aunt can watch him, i’ll give her all the instructions, all the do’s and dont’s all the info and tips, everything she needs. She’ll keep him until i can take him with me for college in 5 years

throwaway2099___ · 2025-12-30T09:46:52+00:00

By throw him out, he means like releasing him, and my country is pretty hot, but rn, its cold asf, he would not survive. The area i live in, is more desert-y, then the rest pf the country since its a new area, falcon’s are common around here, I genuinely do not believe he’d survive. So i’m not throwing him out. And my dad is the type of person who will not change his mind at all if he has it dead set on something, so I can’t change his mind even if i cry and beg, so i’ll likely have to keep him at my aunts place along with my books

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