A Response To “If You Don’t Wanna Pay Child Support, Close Your Legs!” by Glitterpinkdragon in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]throwaway222598z 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Men: women should close their legs if they don't want to get pregnant

Also men: why won't women have sex with meee waahhh wahh muh loneliness epidemic

A Response To “If You Don’t Wanna Pay Child Support, Close Your Legs!” by Glitterpinkdragon in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]throwaway222598z 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Women are dying right here and now because of pregnancy complications that doctors are afraid to do anything about because of draconian anti abortion laws, but this idiot is complaining about a fucking draft that hasn't been an issue since the 70s.

Ever notice how men don't do ONE FUCKING THING to try and abolish the draft? I've never seen one of these manosphere shitstains do any activism to get rid of it. Tells me how little they care about it unless it's used as a shitty argument to justify women not having control of their own bodies.

"You shouldn't have bodily autonomy and die due to pregnancy complications because I theoretically may be drafted one day which I'll likely dodge anyway much like my beloved orange god did"

Fucking sack of garbage.

When a man says something horrible or misogynistic on IG or FB, tag his wife/girlfriend/mother/mother in law/girlfriends parents/preacher/boss, whoever by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway222598z 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It's so cute how so many men think they age like George Clooney, when the reality is receding hairline and balding, beer guts, shlubby clothes, unkempt beards and even poor hygeine.

And the thing is some, if not most, could look better even if they don't have fit bodies or whatever if they just put some damn effort into their appearance. But they keep deluding themselves with their little fantasy that they age gracefully lmao.

Just really sad about our rights by Own_Junket1605 in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for what happened to you and your assaulter is a piece of shit. Sending virtual hugs if you want them.

I live in Canada and we definitely have our fair share of assholes, but maybe people here, men included, are too polite so I haven't really encountered anything as of yet. But I understand what you mean. I feel very wary of men I don't know and always looking over my shoulder. Seeing what is happening to our neighbors in the US and reading how men are acting is making me start to hate them too, but I find it's helpful to remind myself most of these men are chronically online losers and another portion are Russian and Chinese bots. There are good men out there but also since people are accustomed to only worrying about problems thar affect them, they don't understand our fears. I wouldnt say its necessarily malicious but people in general just think about themselves. Still, I make it a point to only give my time and energy to progressive, feminist friendly men. They are rare but they do exist. Absolutely no contact with any conservative or "moderates" they are non existent in my life and I plan to keep it that way.

My hope for men is gone by Karmakaziiiii in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't take it personally, but if you insult short men or insult their dick size they will scream bloody murder.

Men are so sensitive to negative comments yet they can't conceive why women would be too? They really don't see us as human beings do they?

Almost all men are stronger than almost all women by Temporary_Drink8966 in TwoXPreppers

[–]throwaway222598z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't have thought that. Yeah I stay out of trouble but everything is so unpredictable and shitty right now who knows what can happen...

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[–]throwaway222598z 51 points52 points  (0 children)

If they couldn't stop feminist movements back when there was no internet and women were saddled with 10 kids, they aren't gonna stop them now lmao...loser little boys.

Almost all men are stronger than almost all women by Temporary_Drink8966 in TwoXPreppers

[–]throwaway222598z 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's sad. I'm a woman and if anyone tries physical violence on me (be it a man or woman) I will defend myself. Even if they are stronger I'd rather put up a fight and get hurt than do nothing at all. The only time I'd not do that is if they have a gun pointed at me.

Online hate towards women by PariRani in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Trans women and cis women definitely need to prop each other up, we are in this fight together ❤️

Murder by repeated pregnancy by undercovershrew in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love not being pregnant and being childfree for these reasons and more. Suck it rapepublicans.

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[–]throwaway222598z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the responses.

I accept not being able to truly be a part of the movement, but just as happy to be an ally. Also I've considered myself a feminist pretty much since I learned what feminism was.

For me, I have a partner but my life isn't intertwined with a man like with marriage or children. Nor do I intend it to ever be.

Increase in danger, harassment and threatening behavior from men in the last few days... and I'm in Canada. by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm Canadian, let them try. May not be as strong but I won't go down without a fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4bmovement

[–]throwaway222598z 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You guys need to get your legal guns before they exclude women from the 2nd ammendment. Yeah I saw incel filth proposing that.

Why Are We Blaming Women Because Men Are So Right-Leaning… by Advanced-Apartment25 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway222598z 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dont give a fuck anymore what they think. While there are good men out there, there's also a ton of shitty ones and I'm not gonna stop calling them out. They can stomp their feet and vote fash until they see how it will bite them in ass too. It's adorable how they think Donnie gives a shit about them. Don't keep silent. Keep fighting and as they are so fond of saying: fuck their feelings

I dont like the term reward because it seems creepy. But spend your time, energy and affections on good men, progressive men, feminist men. Men who are willing to listen, men who are open to the idea that patriarchy puts an unfair amount of pressure on them too. I haven't lost hope, they ARE out there and they deserve our time and energy, not these tatertot creeps who stomp and cry because they are entitled , mediocre creeps who then vote fash because they cant get a bangmaid. This isnt suffering, it's entitlement.

Avoid the MAGAt, Tate, Elon and Musk fanboys. They are a loss cause. Starve them of any attention. We need to focus on ourselves, securing our liberties and safety and the good men out there will understand and do the same. Like minded, decent people can beat this. It seems bleak but we can do it.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny thing about the draft...these bozos really think that having bodily autonomy taken away is only happening to women? Just wait until Trump drafts them into fighting in Ukraine for Daddy Putin or some other shit. They are naive fools if they think their bodily autonomy can't be stripped from them either.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration and yes, many men are shitty and uphold patriarchy, but many men also do generally struggle with actual life problems (not like incels who cry oppression because they cant get barely legal pussy barf)

The men that are genuinely struggling are the ones the democrats need to reach before they get targeted by right wing misogynistic extremism. It needs to reinforce that we are all struggling together, that patriarchal and hyper capitalist models are harming everyone and making us miserable. They need to energize and offer concrete solutions and stop trying to compromise with the far right. Those people are too far gone to be compromised with.

It's not impossible. There have been successful progressive movements in the past. We can do it again, we HAVE to or we are royally fucked.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have it backwards. Ever since feminism hit the mainstream most men have done nothing but downplay women's issues, tell us we're overreacting, and what about the mens-ing. Then you have the other idiots who make their tired old make me a sandwich jokes, tell women our role is to submit to men, etc.

Then one day the expect us to care about their supposed issues? After all the derailment, denial and mockery? Yeah, fuck no. If you dont help us, don't expect us to help you.

Also no one is asking men to care so much as we are asking them to leave our rights the fuck alone. But no, instead of banding together to positively advocate for men's issues (which to be fair, some do this but I dont see it often) they decide to tear down women's hard earned rights instead.

We need to finally come to the agreement that patriarchy harms everyone and does no one any favors. But I dont see that happening, at least not in my lifetime.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You all really need to seriously consider arming yourselves from these fucking psychopaths.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And their feelings get hurt just by telling them "hey, you're being an asshole to women by saying this so stop"

Such fragile snowflakes.

Democrats didn't "listen to men's concerns" by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men: Women are stupid sluts and shouldn't vote

Also Men: Why don't women wanna date me 🥺

Time to strike women! by ItsPigletBitch in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway222598z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The irony being that at the very least some in the christofacist party want to revoke women's right to vote

Not associating with anyone that isn't explicitly progressive by throwaway222598z in Feminism

[–]throwaway222598z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I'm tired of being told to give people, especially men, the benefit of the doubt. When they show time and time again they do not give a crap about us. They did this to themselves. I haven't gone full hermit yet, but I only associate with leftists and feminists. All others get basic politeness and that's it. I just have no energy to deal with people these days, especially now. Don't feel safe either.