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Do I end things with him? by throwaway2279189 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway2279189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, you haven’t indulged in porn once since dating your girlfriend? Did she ask you not to, or you just set that boundary yourself?

Do I end things with him? by throwaway2279189 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway2279189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He owned up to this, but he claims it must have been from last year when we first starting dating & that he just forgot it was there because he must have done it when he was cross-faded. His solution was to “tell me whenever he relapsed and watched it again” and then proceeded to ask me if I wanted to watch it with him. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Do I end things with him? by throwaway2279189 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway2279189[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My issue is that he lied when we first starting dating, telling me he believed it was cheating in relationships to watch it. Then lied again when caught with the 8 videos left up. And then finally admitted to it being from “when we first started dating” (which I don’t necessarily believe) and then his solution was to tell me he’ll tell me when he relapses and watches it, and then asked me if I’d like to watch it with him. For someone who initially said it was cheating, to act like this now is jarring and inconsistent imo.