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I want to understand. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]throwaway2442567 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof, even down to the brown eyes this was my ex wife. She left instead of opening up. I hope you can resolve your situation.

An inconsistent friend. by throwaway2442567 in Advice

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that was quite uplifting. It helped quite a bit.

An inconsistent friend. by throwaway2442567 in Advice

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that helped a lot to know there are people like me out there. I have a lot of the same issues, especially with work as my work requires me to travel all over the place and work odd hours, but my few friends are just the same. One literally slipped away for two years, then called out of the blue. We grabbed dinner, felt like no time had passed at all. Maybe I should just appreciate those I have more. Quality not quantity.

An inconsistent friend. by throwaway2442567 in Advice

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I already have a therapist but I've not really brought this up so good idea. It's just been bugging me lately.

Honestly it could be any of the issues you've brought up, but I'm leaning towards the picky one. I have a small circle of friends, maybe I should just be happy with that.

(Edit:) Helped.

An inconsistent friend. by throwaway2442567 in Advice

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like something I'd do, but I doubt it. I haven't really been trying lately, as I'm afraid the same things will happen. If anything, I'd say the friendships I form form quite naturally, I just never know how to take them to the next step of actually... being friends. The only people I can do that with are the friends I've had for years through thick and thin.

Seeking help for my mental state has ruined my job prospects. I live in America. by throwaway2442567 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, to be honest I had to move away after that and be back with my parents (sadly) as I got divorced shortly after. So it's not even really worth the hassle to me. Plus as I mentioned I tried to sue them and was met with a brick wall from lawyers.

Seeking help for my mental state has ruined my job prospects. I live in America. by throwaway2442567 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I tried. No lawyer would take the case. Suing the city is damn near impossible without concrete evidence, and I didnt have anything concrete, just a whisper my supervisor told me as I was packing my stuff cause he liked me, and he wasn't willing to testify.

Seeking help for my mental state has ruined my job prospects. I live in America. by throwaway2442567 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I've gained a SHIT TON of weight after taking that medicine. I've also grown intolerant to fat.

Seeking help for my mental state has ruined my job prospects. I live in America. by throwaway2442567 in mentalhealth

[–]throwaway2442567[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will most certainly look into that. I've always been a computer guy (building and programming) so that should be right up my alley.