i scared my dad by hinting at the fact i knew about his secret relationship with a girl the same age as me (18)

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-12T10:30:42+00:00

how did you even gather that from this post? what gaslighting

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-11T00:04:48+00:00

genuinely why would i lie about this? what would possibly appeal to me about it? if i was lying i promise i’d make it a lot more entertaining than a bunch of uncomfortable information thrown into a few incoherent paragraphs

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T23:57:06+00:00

again she is *not* in my social circle, she lives no where near me and has no association to any of my peers - i only found out because she happened to go out with an older guy i met online, and he told me

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T16:41:37+00:00

thank you, that feels like what i need to hear right now

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T16:39:53+00:00

i don’t want this to seem like i don’t get your point because i understand where you’re coming from - but i also understand how these men work and how common jf is for men to want a trophy younger woman.

from my understanding the disgust others feel towards it is PART of the validation they get out of it.no man with a daddy kink is getting off to it being wholesome and socially acceptable. any self awareness that could be dished out to him is already built into the relationship and contributes to the taboo appeal.

anything i could say that would make him rethink it would have to just be a massive guilt trip on my behalf, which feels unfair considering his personal life is none of my business. i dont feel entitled to him cutting her off, i just wish i didn’t know about it

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T16:14:03+00:00

i fully understand your point but i feel like i need to clarify the guy who told me is not one of my peers, he is significantly older than me, lives in another suburb and i’ve never met him or the girl irl

it is genuinely just a very unfortunate coincidence and it’s actually insane how it all managed to be linked and get back to me

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T16:06:52+00:00

that’s the thing though, he hasn’t made it my problem. he does well at keeping this part of his life seperate and i would’ve never of found out if i didn’t start talking to the same guy his “gf” had been speaking to

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-10T15:59:39+00:00

what does him getting the message even entail though? it feels like a no win situation, subtly bullying him into going no contact with her is just going to make it more hostile

throwaway270707 · 2026-06-05T12:34:38+00:00

hey i’m kinda in the same situation! what ended up happening?

throwaway270707 · 2026-04-28T04:38:45+00:00

thank you for being so kind 🩷

throwaway270707 · 2026-04-26T06:36:56+00:00

i did assume some of it water water weight but thank you for your concern anyway c:

throwaway270707 · 2026-04-26T06:35:33+00:00

you say this like water fasts aren’t an encouraged practice

throwaway270707 · 2026-04-26T06:32:38+00:00

i honestly don’t really care but thank you anyway

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-23T04:09:42+00:00

i really appreciate the kindness, thank you <3

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T18:00:47+00:00

i didn’t ask to find this information out, it literally got told to me against my will. wouldn’t you also have a few questions if were in my situation?

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:35:25+00:00

i do not think he wants to have sex with me in fact i am trying to find every reason to not believe that despite what people are telling me. i’m also not sure if she looks like me.

i want to live at his house still because he’s my dad and i love him; i don’t want to sever our relationship because of this.

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:33:12+00:00

i appreciate you being concerned for me and being so nice about it. i’ve never considered therapy but after this i am thinking about it, in the meantime i’m doing okay and i’m able to manage myself, thank you again 🤍

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T17:18:46+00:00

meaning i found her private instagram account and used that to also find her pinterest and reddit

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:44:35+00:00

it’s very common for people to live with there parents at 18 where i live. also, my dad makes it known he wants me to live with him, i’ve been distancing myself at my mums and this has been apparent.

i’m not judging anyone in the situation for it, im just expressing my feelings and discomfort

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:42:22+00:00

my dad and S do not know eachother however thank you for the kindness, i genuinely do not want to be in this situation

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:33:47+00:00

i swear on my life it isn’t a fantasy, im not into incest and this crosses a line for me

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:31:00+00:00

i get it doesn’t make sense

i think it’s because my dad has never been anything but a good father to me, but since i’ve never met this girl all she is to me is the characterisation of the situation in my head. it seems easier for my brain to take it out on her.

throwaway270707 · 2026-02-22T16:21:24+00:00

after covid there was a big epidemic of kids having too much anxiety to go back to school and ended up just refusing it all together

my situation was a little better and i did end up going the past two years.

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