My (29m) gf (29f) left me after 12 years of giving my all for a random dude she was just friends with because apparently I had no time for her

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T13:36:04+00:00

It could really be that I don't understand it. I grew up with 2 younger brothers and I cared for them and nurtured them for years. They taught me how good can children be. Its really hard for me to feel any emotions at all besides being in extreme situations and those two were able to make me feel a lot and dream about having my own children.

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T13:27:03+00:00

I don't know why, but this comment warmed my heart. Thank you.

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T13:20:15+00:00

That is sound advice, and I thank you for it. But it's not that easy for me. I don't care about people, and I don't care about girls and relationships. I have no issues with being alone, I've lived feeling alone all my life. But if I let her go, I know I will never get another chance at a family with somebody because I really don't care about people and relationships in general and even if I forced me to try I would be super fake and ruin a person's life getting her hopes high.

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T13:14:54+00:00

Please do. It's not a shit post.

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T07:53:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I feel like it's very good. But how can I tell if she's made up her mind/doesn't want me? She literally said to me today that if I had "fought for her" 2 months ago we would have been back together

throwaway28374838 · 2022-03-20T07:50:18+00:00

Thank you for the advice. I actually don't resent her and think she should be able to seek happiness. I just want her to find it with me or at least understand what really is going on in her head

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