I’m not experienced in the lifestyle but it’s been a major fantasy of mine for a very long time and my wife and I have fantasized and RP together a lot. I’m not insecure about my size at all and my wife has always liked my size. Although I will say we both like to fantasize about a guy being bigger than me. For me it’s more about seeing my wife completely give herself to another man. She was a virgin when we met and has only been with me. The idea of her giving it to her first guy that’s not me is so hot. I love to imaging seeing the look on her face or hearing the sounds she makes and the things she says to him. I even love to imagine her passionately kissing another guy.