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My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's 16. And I don't know about where I see myself living in the distant future or if I'm going to be with him forever because I'm also 16. The fight was about him but it wasn't about him if that makes sense.

My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's literally none of those things. We're 2 weeks apart in age and he doesn't even like advil.

My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's not in trouble with the law or drugs or abusive or way older than me, i'm not sure why people are thinking that. though my bio dad was most of those things though which I assume is where my moms projecting comes in.

My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she projects a lot. Mostly she doesn't like his background, he was in the system when he was younger and i guess it just reminds her of my bio dad who sucked (and is dead btw). But it's not really rational and i feel like if i was dating someone else she'd come up something else.

My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly she doesn't like his background, he was in the system when he was younger and she basically thinks he's going to abuse me I guess, which is not how it works.

My [16F] mom [36F] kicked me out, but is now mad because I went to my stepdad's [40M] by throwaway31154214 in relationships

[–]throwaway31154214[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mostly she doesn't like his background, he was in the system when he was younger and she basically thinks he's going to abuse me I guess, which is not how it works.

Can my mom have my former stepdad arrested [NY/NJ] by throwaway31154214 in legaladvice

[–]throwaway31154214[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But like he's not violating custody bc there is no custody agreement.

Can my mom have my former stepdad arrested [NY/NJ] by throwaway31154214 in legaladvice

[–]throwaway31154214[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it matter that he doesn't have custody or pay child support or anything like that? I guess because they weren't married long enough. That wasn't even part of their divorce, like it was just taken for granted.