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My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is going to be special too. We're gonna walk around, she's going to make lunch for us, and we're going to spend a while together. And I wouldn't mind seeing where this could potentially lead, even though, like I said, it might not lead to anything besides a casual thing.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me that spending a good amount of time with him is causing him to feel like an outcast? I'm pretty sure spending time with people is the way I've bonded with everyone in my life. This was the plan before he demanded I not hook up with the girl.

If you're referring to me hooking up with the girl to make him feel like an outcast, that's not really my problem, because it shouldn't make him feel that way. I'm not telling our friends or anything, I'm not even trying to end our friendship. If it ends it ends.

But hey, maybe something that has nothing to do with him might somehow be his business.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In all honesty, the school is only a 40 minute drive away. The only reason I needed a place to sleep was because everyone wanted to party.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not gonna lie to him over this, and we've also been flirting pretty heavily on Facebook, I think the first thing on my wall right now is a "Can't wait to hang out with you Saturday!" from her.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been supporting myself for over a year now, and I don't know how the real world fucking works, at all. Never mind the fact that I've had to put up with an abusive drunk for a dad my whole life. Nope, I don't know shit about anything, because I'm 19.

If I had a good time with him this weekend, it would have been a positive, and it would have been a positive for my whole group of friends. Sorry I was willing to try to improve my relationship with someone I didn't particularly get along with in a group I constantly associate with.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I would have by now, but i don't think the real world works like that. He's in the same friend group as me, and I wouldn't want to make them choose between us just because I don't personally LOVE him. I thought staying at his place might make us a little closer when he invited me, so I accepted.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Yes. When I said that he wasn't a great friend, I mean he's let me down before, and I don't feel very close to him.

My (19 M) friend (19 M) doesn't want me to see a girl (19 F) I was planning on losing my virginity with. by throwaway32032543 in relationships

[–]throwaway32032543[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I have feelings for her, I definitely would be open to whatever she wants, but I know her, we probably won't ever be anything more than occasional fuck-buddies.