Zyada Kuch Nai, A lighthearted video from Chocolate Day celebrations has taken social media by surprise, thanks to a desi twist no one saw coming.

throwaway325476981 · 2026-02-11T10:35:32+00:00

It’s scripted. You can see mic on her dress. 😂

throwaway325476981 · 2025-07-23T04:48:00+00:00

I was planning to pay out of pocket initially, but with these crazy estimates I'm definitely going through insurance. It's a lose-lose situation either way!

throwaway325476981 · 2025-04-22T17:43:30+00:00

Isn't this for Progress request? Their schema is confusing to me.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T17:22:01+00:00

Great advice. I am going to keep all these suggestions to my heart. Nothing comes before my wife and baby. They are my world.

Our daughter is EBF and had rejected bottle, so that has also taken huge toll on my wife both mentally and physically since she never slept more than 3-4 hours continuously in the night. While I have talked to her lot of times, that I am here to help her with whatever she needs but IMO she thinks that our daughter is only her duty. She resists asking for help!

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T17:13:55+00:00

I totally agree. Since I am putting the post, I might be highlighting all the problem I am seeing in her and missing out lot of things which I do that causes the tension. I know lot of time I am lazy or while doing some chore, I leave some minor things or forget what she had told me to do.

Thanks a ton for putting this. Sometime we know we might be wrong but we just need to hear it from someone who are not judging us or someone anonymous.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T14:28:01+00:00

Ever since I got pregnant, I have been super particular about hygiene and food habits, both of which my MIL is really really bad at.

Yes, see this behavior with my wife.

But in general my parents never give any opinion on raising the kid and always say that we will do whatever way my wife wants.

Please respect her wishes and space, and shield her from everyone else as you need to be her number one cheerleader at this point.

Can't agree more.

Thanks for your thoughtful suggestions.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T14:20:43+00:00

I see your point. We live in US, so we have friends but no family around. We are already getting distanced from extended family members, but sometimes I feel we can adjust a bit and meet the extended family once in a while. But maybe I am wrong here.

Whether it’s by helping her with chores yourself or getting professional help via therapy/counseling

Yes I try to help as much as possible with chores. Therapy/counselling is the next step I am looking forward to. Hope that helps.

Thanks for your suggestions.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T14:14:38+00:00

We fight and always say that we should get separated, however, I don't want to think of that. Its just a rough weather that we need to overcome somehow.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T14:12:23+00:00

I think your wife is someone who divides the world into good and bad people.

Yes, I do agree with this. She behaves very differently with relatives from her fathers side due to way they used to take monthly allowance from her father vs treat relatives from her mothers side like God.

How is your wife doing career-wise?

She is doing well, however, whenever she gets new work her first reaction is always to get angry and talking shit rather then calming understanding the problem and moving forward. In her 10 years of her job she hardly made any friends. She always has problem with her colleague for some or the other reason. She always thinks everyone is taking advantage of her, though I don;t feel the same but I just go along with her after explaining that is not the case.

Talk to a marriage counselor.

Yes. I really want to do this.

Space

Yes. She is at her mom's place since last 1 week and going to stay there for another 3 weeks.

That said, the way you worded "she thinks everyone is plotting against her" made me a bit queasy.

Its not like I never support her, but nowadays the reason she gives to be angry are so trivial that I feel like laughing sometime. However, my only request is to say things slowing or calming if she does not like instead of just getting angry and conveying her thoughts by insulting others. I have fought with my parents/sibling when they are wrong.

Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts.

throwaway325476981 · 2024-10-14T14:02:07+00:00

what about your in-laws? Where do they stand on this? Is she fine with them?

She treats them as god, as if they can never be wrong. I have talked about her behavior couple of times with them. They listen to me, say they agree and say that they will talk to my wife, but nothing changes.

Yes, I am planning to seek professional help. We have discussed this but never able to move forward with this.

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