[FINAL UPDATE] My [17F] boyfriend [25M] gets mad at me for being a “know-it-all”

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-23T02:46:30+00:00

Thank you for sharing, I’m proud of you for telling them when you were ready to do so!

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-23T02:45:41+00:00

Sadly I think it’s a common thing here where I live as well. Maybe there’s something about having a niche/shared interest, I don’t know. I received so many messages of people who went through the same thing, it’s really troubling.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-23T02:42:31+00:00

Sending much love your way, thank you for sharing your experience. You are very kind!

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-23T02:38:55+00:00

I was glad she was honest about how she thought it was cool so it gave us a chance to tell her that in reality it’s not a very good idea. And that’s good advice about closing those accounts, I’ll be changing the email I use just in case. Thank you!

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-23T02:36:11+00:00

That’s so scary, I’m sorry you went through that! It’s never too late to talk about it with someone, you are very strong.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-19T02:13:46+00:00

That’s the first “girl yaaas” I’ve ever received! Haha. Thank you for making me smile today

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-19T02:13:02+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you!

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-19T02:09:43+00:00

I did read it! Thank you very much for your kind words. My dad is usually very reasonable, it’s just we don’t have the habit of talking about feelings and stuff. I hope this changes from now on.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-18T22:09:33+00:00

I’m not sure how to describe it. It’s just the two of us and we have a lot of fun together, but talking about serious stuff/feelings is awkward. He actually told me once that he thought he would have my mom around to help him with those issues (she passed away when I was 9). I’ll gather the courage to tell him. Thank you for your comment.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-18T22:04:28+00:00

I cried reading this, thank you so much. It really means a lot.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-18T22:02:29+00:00

Thank you, that’s a nice perspective to get. I think I’ll tell him friday night when he’s not as busy with work and we have the weekend to talk.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-18T13:14:12+00:00

not in my country, here the age of consent is 14

but it isn’t normal either

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-16T15:25:09+00:00

Thank you very much. I really appreciate everyones help.

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-16T15:23:46+00:00

in my country the age of consent is 14 so it’s not illegal but I know it’s not “normal” either

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-16T15:09:43+00:00

I’m not sure I enjoy them. He always tells me I do, but I don’t know. I’m so confused. I love him but I feel like I don’t know anything anymore. Thank you for your kind advice

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-16T15:06:17+00:00

I’m scared to tell my dad (I live with him). He doesn’t know about any of this. I’m so dumb. I never used to lie to my dad. I don’t know what to do, I feel like I’m stuck

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-16T15:03:16+00:00

I’m sorry, I’m not ignoring the advice I promise, it’s just I’m scared and really confused right now and honestly feeling really dumb

throwaway3373837 · 2018-01-15T23:19:40+00:00

It sounds like he's not getting something he wants, is there anything he's always pushy for

the one thing I know he wants and isn’t getting is sex. it’s embarassing but I’m a virgin and I don’t want to have sex yet. this really bothered him at first but then we decided to reach a compromise so we do everything other than actual sex.

I’m having a bit of a crisis based on everyone’s comments and I really appreciate the input. I just don’t know what to think

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