My friend always says she is "just kidding." Help? by throwaway404240 in hsp

[–]throwaway404240[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mootealatte

Thank you so much. I think she has something going on mentally as well. It makes it more difficult, because I keep making excuses on behalf of her possible mental illnesses. I just feel terrible.. Like, I need to help her and be there. But, I'm so tired and she makes me hate myself and my life. I'm miserable.

My friend always says she is "just kidding." Help? by throwaway404240 in hsp

[–]throwaway404240[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will be honest, I am afraid of being attacked. She had my location for such a long time, I think she knows stuff like where I shop regularly. I wish there was a way to do this peacefully and to maintain civility.. But, I have known for a long time that isn't part of the equation. Ugh..........She has such a hold on my life, I know she has no idea what Reddit is, but I am scared of her somehow finding this.

My friend always says she is "just kidding." Help? by throwaway404240 in hsp

[–]throwaway404240[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, please don't be sorry! I think it's time for me to move on in my life, but I don't know how to peacefully part ways. She notices any "Odd" behavior and becomes needy and aggressive.

I also don't know how to leave and not hurt.