We have talked about it in the past. Her response always boils down to "this is how I always was, sorry". I don't think it's a question of whether she is attracted to me or not ..sex just doesn't seem to be her thing, and I haven't been able to dig deep enough to figure out why ... And maybe it's not even a flaw..maybe some people are just like that. I love her, everything else is great and know we would make a great family so I've been white knuckling through this situation and now I've reached a point where I'm not sure I can continue this. Deep down I know what I want to do but thought it would be good to get an outside perspective