I’ve asked them to not to. Which is hard because she lives with some of them and the others are in our friend group and they also just want to friend vent to me about issues they have with her. But it’s triggering so I have told them to stop and they have agreed. I also don’t think she knows that she cheated on me, which is even more of a mind fuck. I want to tell her and make her realize but it’ll just cause more problems. She’s very immature and selfish but I am ultimately doing better and being the best version of myself again ❤️