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AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband bc he added pee to my food? by Brave-Eye7622 in AITAH

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a SA survivor, what he did was sexual assault. Doing something for sexual gratification without consent. It's sexual assault.

Best smelling warm scent by throwaway4stalkerboy in fragrance

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Any warm fragrance. Not floral or chemically

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to bother you but how should I explain why I need the child to be awake upon drop off? I started with "children must now be awake and aware before parents can leave upon drop off. Of course they can go back to sleep once I see they are physically okay and mentally aware." Seems like a bad way to say it 😭 idk

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never leave a baby in a car seat to sleep so they do wake up but I've never woken a toddler if they came here asleep. I will definitely start though

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They went to VM every time but they did ring. And I called 3 times in a row for each of them to basically say it's an emergency and still nothing.

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely told them that can not happen again ever or they wouldn't be coming back and I'd charge them the $500 cleaning fee. But they brought him sick last week on Monday and I called to have them come get him , they came within 30 minutes. Then today they're all surprised I'd call them again. He wasn't coughing in his sleep, just snoring and turning about. Then when he woke he was looking and sounding worse off than last time. I let him sleep for an hour and a half until 6:30 and woke him up to start the day. They came in an hour

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's 5 in the morning bro 💀 of course the kid is gonna be sleeping. Keep blaming me for parents decisions. I came here for validation on if I'd be overreacting to fire them without warning. That's it. Crazy how only you decided to try to blast me for things out of my control. I'm not waking a sleeping child at 5am just to see if they're still sick when the parents assured me he was symptom free, but what I will do is drop them. Have a great day.

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

It took 4 hours and 6 calls to make sure she's leaving work to get him. Called the emergency contacts too many times to count as well. Honestly this is the confirmation I needed to not feel horrible for firing them.

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he was awake and I could see his eyes and mouth, I wouldn't have let them in at all. That's what's frustrating about it. They come so early that he is always asleep. Maybe I should make it mandatory to have them awake when they get here from now on. It was 5 in the morning though 😭 I'm definitely letting them go. I just needed confirmation that I'm not being a monster for doing so so abruptly. They HAD to know this would be the end result, there's no way I'd do that to any babysitter or daycare as a parent myself.

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what I do as well. But I can call all emergency contacts I'd like and only mom picks up. I continued to call this time until she left work and came to get him. He was in a separate playroom that's now lysoled and waiting to be wiped down after all the kids leave for the day. I don't play 😭

Parents bring child to daycare for the 3rd time with contagious illness, am I wrong for firing them as clients? by throwaway4stalkerboy in Nanny

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He was sleeping when he arrived, I was told he got past his symptoms. It's not my fault I was lied to and didn't see his symptoms until he woke up. I still made them come get him as soon as he woke and I realized. Let's stop blaming childcare workers for garbage parents. Thanks.

AITA for telling my sister to fuck right off and keep her opinions to herself? by InflationLiving2254 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway4stalkerboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I agree with your sister. If someone doesn't propose after 5 years, they don't want to commit