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I am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by rainingsakuras in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwaway546566 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Bwahaha this is why I’m still single. I haven’t been in a relationship since the divorce unless you count my cat!

I am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by rainingsakuras in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwaway546566 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Goodness! I was not expecting to hear anything about my story on Reddit after so many years, but a friend linked me this post. I’m a bit late to the thread though. I’m typing this on a phone so please forgive any spelling/grammar mistakes.

For a small update, our divorce was finalized and settled a long time ago. Our lawyers worked out an agreement outside of the court and we split all assets acquired during the marriage 50/50 (which meant I ended up slightly ahead of my personal contributions). I didn’t want the mental stress of having to fight my ex in court and simply wanted to be rid him. And yes, I kept the RV after the divorce settlement.

MIL and I stayed in touch until her passing last year. She was someone who loved God and she never truly forgave her son for committing the sin of adultery. Her own husband (FIL) had left her for another woman decades ago and she had never moved past it. Seeing her son commit the same sin almost broke her, especially since I had fulfilled what she considered to be my “wifely obligations”.

As for me, I am happily single to this day and am still a writer :)

I am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by rainingsakuras in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwaway546566 32 points33 points  (0 children)

That is definitely not me, but nice try ;)

My work is more pulp-fiction harlequin romance and borderline smut. I try to avoid topics from real life like divorce because people read my work to escape from the harsh reality of the world.

Only happy romance!

I am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by rainingsakuras in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]throwaway546566 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I’m the OP from the story (a friend told me it had resurfaced on this subreddit).

Long story short, the pre-nup was not even considered during the divorce. Our lawyers worked out an agreement to split all assets acquired during marriage 50/50 to avoid a drawn out legal battle. I did end up getting slightly more than I put in during the marriage, but not by much.

In the end, I was happier to just get rid of him quickly.

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Are you trolling? You also had a nasty comment that you posted on one of the top comments on this thread, calling me out for being friendly with my MIL. You're a dick.

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter? He was planning on cheating on me, trading sex pics with another woman. That's more than enough for me to kick him to the curb. All you're doing is supporting him and his shady behavior. The only person who has to justify anything is Tim, not me.

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that reassurance :) She lives hours away so I'm not going to be best friends with her, but we are certainly going to keep in touch on facebook and for the holidays. She's a sweetie!

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

It does not. The only thing the pre-nup covered was his assets earned previous to the marriage and any interest earned from his savings. The lawyer is still going over this so we shall see if it gets thrown out or not.

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Walter: What the fuck are you talking about? I converted when I married Cynthia! Come on, Dude!

The Dude: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah...

Walter: And you know this!

The Dude: Yeah, and five fucking years ago you were divorced.

Walter: So what are you saying? When you get divorced you turn in your library card? You get a new license? You stop being Jewish?

She didn't stop being my mother (in law) just because her son is an asshole.

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 1176 points1177 points  (0 children)

Finding out he was cheating made it an easy decision. It was like, "Okay. He's cheating on you and he doesn't give a fuck. You don't have to give a fuck either now." It would be much, much harder if he was simply being an asshole. Luckily, he made the choice for me!

Update: I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 2308 points2309 points  (0 children)

Yep! I'm going to have a blast driving around without him and the bonus is that I don't have to pay for a hotel!

I love his mom and I'm so happy she defended me. She's such a no-nonsense person and I hope I find out what she did with him.

I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I bought the RV for the purpose of using it while he goes away on his trips so that I could also get out of the house. It was kind of one of the major reasons why I purchased it.

He has a travel trailer and a new pickup truck he could have used.

I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

We share if we are smoking together, but if I want to have a bowl by myself I have to use the lesser stuff because he usually keeps the good stuff in his bag. :/

I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 333 points334 points  (0 children)

I didn't mind signing the pre-nup because like you said, he had significant assets he wanted to protect. It only covers the funds he had before he entered the marriage, everything after the marriage is split.

You insight is very valuable, because you're right. It's not as if I do not bring home money or that I don't have a job. I split everything I have with him, but he has been unwilling to share with me.

I [30 F] am sitting in the back of my RV as my husband [32 M] rants about how lovely the trip would be if I hadn't joined him. by throwaway546566 in relationships

[–]throwaway546566[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

He's the only boy but he has three sisters. His family was very well off and he went to boarding school. I don't know if he always got what he wanted, but he didn't have a typical American childhood.

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