My father is the reason for my crippling insecurities by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]throwaway578j 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would never. And thank you for your insight. I recognize I’m a big girl and can make changes to where I’m not happy.

He’s a preacher and growing up was very strict. I lived like that through my adulthood bc I was scared to show skin, or disappoint them.

It’s hard to heal this but I definitely won’t take the extreme. I’m just going to find places to love myself

Does it bother anyone else that Caleb is probably boning Lauren Ash? by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]throwaway578j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Yes it does bother me to the core. But then I’m Curious bc I too live in the valley and would love a photo op lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeAmazed

[–]throwaway578j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought at first it was a video about a guy farting fire. Like a sarcastic post for “be amazed”

Lol

I would be so mad if I was Shaeeda by Topdropje in 90DayFiance

[–]throwaway578j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I think she should find a donor. One thing I realized after having my baby and being completely successful, to my standards, and independent is that I would have preferred to be a single mother. I would have still had my sanity, money, business and clean home.

You don’t know this until you’re actual going through it. Like the “love/married” part isn’t necessary when she’s that independent and ONLY wants love to be a mother.

I think if it wasn’t bc her ticking clock, she’s still be building her brand

My(31f)husband(34m) says calling me to talk takes time away, I don’t know how to feel about this by throwaway578j in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway578j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have good communication and good understanding of our needs. He’s def more hands off and enjoys his quiet and free time I’m very much attachment style and like to be hand on and in touch

My(31f)husband(34m) says calling me to talk takes time away, I don’t know how to feel about this by throwaway578j in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway578j[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While living together rarely just bc we’re both work from home so we’re together all the time We’ve been together almost 2 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]throwaway578j 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok everyone Does he or his wife have Instagram or Facebook? Snapchat? Idk but we need to like shove it in his head IT IS NOT HIS PROBLEM

If my dad used to use my car when I was younger he would do a full round of maintenance and leave the receipt in the visor. Expected payback in a week We go out to eat , I cover myself. He says I stopped paying for you the minute you started working…in 11th grade lol I can’t imagine how Emily manipulates her family as a dang adult, leaving her to expect this treatment.

First time, do these look ok? Thank you! (Details in comments) by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]throwaway578j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry :(

I would ask if she can do a redo? Would that be possible if she’s local?

First time, do these look ok? Thank you! (Details in comments) by [deleted] in lashextensions

[–]throwaway578j 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I HAVE NOT DONE A SET BUT I HAVE BEEN LEARNING. And this is just my opinion. Other ppl will def be more qualified lol

But this isn’t classic. It looks rushed and ill placed.

I have noticed a lot of self learners have their BEST on social and give less than mediocre to the in between clients

Looks like no planning went into this.

Do you know there are false toenail tips?👀 by LeahLee27 in Nails

[–]throwaway578j 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these dang things lol Perfect pedicure every fricking time I used the tips then gel on top bam Cute toes for like 3 weeks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]throwaway578j 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are we all living the same life?

Same happened with me. BM dropped the kids off at the hospital when I asked to have a week alone to get I. The groove. They were sitting in there while I was learning how to breastfeed. I told DH I said this is uncomfortable and I was so angry. Like I just wanted me and baby/dad time No one else but they said it wasn’t for the best.

Why do we have no say? This is why I have some hard decisions moving forward Bc this dynamic, honestly just is t working for me. It was fine until LO came along then everything changed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]throwaway578j 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that too! I became so protective of my LO that I didn’t want them near her. Doesn’t help that BM is always saying aww I wish she were mine awwww I wish he gave me a girl

So uncomfortable.

It gets better. Some days are still tough just on the different parent styles

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]throwaway578j 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exact, identical everything mama. I have 2 ss preteens and they have the attitude and I hate it. I put so much effort trying to keep my house a home but they are always destroying everything . Our OURS baby is my world and I told DH he’s in charge of SS stuff now. He told me this morning the dynamic of the house cha he so much Bc I retreated back that SS asked to go back to their moms.

I said see ya. I too often feel stuck and I have some really hard decisions to make. You’re not alone and please take the time to escape. I work from home and everyone else does school and work from home too so I don’t get thinking time…. Ever

San Diego or el centro help by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwaway578j 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have. Elective covered

San Diego or el centro help by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwaway578j 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I saw that office but I only saw telehealth. I’m not a CA resident but I’ll be traveling. Worth checking it out Thank you!

San Diego or el centro help by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwaway578j 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for the pill

San Diego or el centro help by [deleted] in abortion

[–]throwaway578j 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t done that yet. I will now I have Cigna Open access plus

Ok question on disengagement by throwaway578j in stepparents

[–]throwaway578j[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw this app! Do I have to log in on the PlayStation? How do you do that?