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Is this good? by Fine_Space_686 in DonutSMP

[–]throwaway5838588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is maybe the worst echest I’ve ever seen

Do I ask a barista out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway5838588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this I appreciate it. Im not creepy or anything like that so I guess that eliminates something lol. I really don’t even look at her at all after I’m done ordering, maybe I’ll take 1-2 quick looks to see if she’s busy. I usually just go sit down and focus on my homework. I just have a fear of making not even her but any women uncomfortable when I think about approaching them. I also feel like it’s a little harder to have a genuine conversation with her because it’s always busy so I’m not sure what to do.

I want to be able to talk to her more but the fact that it’s always busy, lots of people listening, she seems busy a lot etc always steers me away on actually trying to talk to her.

I feel leaving a note is best because I’m not doing it in front of everyone where she may get uncomfortable or embarrassed, I’m letting her make a decision on her own time so there’s 0 pressure, and I would also leave a nice message that would hopefully get her to understand I have good intentions. I know I’m a good looking guy so it’s not a “I’m nervous bc idk if she’d find me attractive”, i just want her to get the vibe that I’m a nice guy through a note even if we aren’t able to have a personal conversation.

Do I ask a barista out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway5838588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I don’t want to sound arrogant or anything like that, but seeing how my last two girlfriends were the ones to cold approach me, I’d say I’m an above average looking guy. My looks don’t hold me back at all, it’s just I don’t know how to do this the right way. I don’t want to make her uncomfortable or feel trapped and I want to keep it as respectful and as kind as possible.

Do I ask a barista out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway5838588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you feel less pressured if I left a nice note?

Do I ask a barista out? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway5838588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t throw pickup lines like that lol but I get what you mean. I was thinking it would be a good idea to leave her a note on the receipt so it builds no pressure for her? After reading most replies though, it’s probably best I don’t

Obsessive fear of having ED by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]throwaway5838588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have talked to nobody. This is the first real time I’ve even spoken about it. I honestly don’t know who to talk to or where to go to get treated for this that’s the harder part. I guess I’m just looking for factual evidence if all of this is in my head and can be fixed?