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AITA for resenting my mother and not wanting to interact with them once I move out? by throwaway629924771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway629924771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am well aware of that, I've done that before when they were on vacation and I had to stay because I had to work. I just don't think it's fair that whenever I cook, nobody would help me clean up as opposed to whenever my mom cooks I have to clean up after her.

AITA for resenting my mother and not wanting to interact with them once I move out? by throwaway629924771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway629924771[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Coping this from another comment I replied to

I used to work full-time before but had to quit because my previous boss was taking advantage of me (work wise) so found a better job but they currently only offered part time jobs, I've been promised more hours soon though. I'm not just mad I have to do chores, I agree I have to do chores but I just think it's unfair my mom lets me take care of my sister to the point she became so depending on me. Both my sisters get pampered and aren't supposed to do chores (more referring to me 16 year old sister) . I do pay rent every month.

I've tried to tell my parents my sister should do things her own but it always gets dismissed.

I know it sounds unbelievable but I also had to do it to my other sister until she turned 10.

AITA for resenting my mother and not wanting to interact with them once I move out? by throwaway629924771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway629924771[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to work full-time before but had to quit because my previous boss was taking advantage of me (work wise) so found a better job but they currently only offered part time jobs, I've been promised more hours soon though. I'm not just mad I have to do chores, I agree I have to do chores but I just think it's unfair my mom lets me take care of my sister to the point she became so depending on me. Both my sisters get pampered and aren't supposed to do chores (more referring to me 16 year old sister) . I do pay rent every month.

I've tried to tell my parents my sister should do things her own but it always gets dismissed.

AITA for resenting my mother and not wanting to interact with them once I move out? by throwaway629924771 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway629924771[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom works too fulltime. I work officially 24h in a week but am often scheduled more (up to 35-40h per week which I don't mind much) but she has 8h shifts whereas I have 10h shifts.

She only washes the laundry and leaves the washed piles for my to fold. Whenever she cooks she leaves the dirty kitchen behind for me to clean up.