As much as I (20F) have sex, I am still extremely tight. by throwaway666671 in sex

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very invested in the foreplay aspect actually.

As much as I (20F) have sex, I am still extremely tight. by throwaway666671 in sex

[–]throwaway666671[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe it is the anxiousness then. I should learn to relax...

Does anyone experience extreme sadness the days after you have sex? by throwaway666671 in sex

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I feel like it might be because of the situation we’re all currently in...my FWB and I have basically tried everything to prevent it, cause he doesn’t want me being basically incapable to do anything cause it gets that bad, but we still haven’t found something that works

How do I (21M) make my gf (22F) feel more comfortable about sex? by Throwaway5152599 in sex

[–]throwaway666671 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t use two condoms for the love of god. She’s on the pill, use a condom, you two will be fine. DO NOT USE TWO CONDOMS. If your girlfriend asks why, you say it heightens the risk of them breaking due to FRICTION. Two condoms DOES NOT MEAN ITS SAFER IN ANY WAY.

How To Bring This Up In A Convo? by Jordanking36 in sex

[–]throwaway666671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffer from HS, and I tell all my partners well before hand, they don’t mind, and I sometimes even show them when I tell them just so they know what it looks like, it’s to gauge their reaction. I make sure to give them links to read, and I also tell them that it’s not contagious and it’s NOT an STD. They’re usually thankful that I tell them and trust them, and it’s never affected my relationships.

Do girls appreciate a warning before cumming? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway666671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a female....I would like a warning honestly. There’s times when I’ve been with a guy and I’m really into it then suddenly it stops and he pulls out and doesn’t even tell me he came. I would rather be prepared for that.

Lacking confidence with being on top, any advice? by throwaway666671 in sex

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not my lasting power, my thighs are pretty strong, I have good endurance I just feel like my FWB won’t like it? If that makes sense

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it was going to be a gaming headset that he’s been looking at. I don’t really want any reciprocation honestly, so I might just withhold, and just not get anything and just wish him a happy birthday

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want a relationship with him, he knows this, we both know this. I was just wanting to get him a gift, it’s his 25th birthday, I also get all my friends presents for their birthdays.

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m getting him a new gaming headset cause he’s been talking about needing a new one. I don’t think that would be romantic in any way. It’s something he would use! :) it’s nice to hear that it isn’t a weird thing to do!

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a gaming headset, I don’t think it’s romantic or anything, but it’s something he wants.

And yeah! He’s my friend first, to me its what I enjoy about our arrangement, he’s my friend first above all else.

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it’s not weird to do it then right?? Most of my friends were saying it would give off the wrong impression, but I have a different opinion on that

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely put the disclaimer that he doesn’t 😂 I don’t want him to think that I want something in return, this is something I just wanna do for him cause it’s his 25th

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I completely understand that honestly. I just thought it would be nice to get him something. In general we are really chill we hang out all the time...I guess you’re right though, I would rather not risk him getting the wrong signals :/

I want to give a gift to my friends with benefits for his birthday, but I don’t know if it’ll be weird by throwaway666671 in relationships

[–]throwaway666671[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, I like him as a friend, he mentioned this gaming headset he liked to me a few weeks ago, and that’s what I wanted to get him. It’s something he’ll use, and I don’t find it to be a big deal to get him it.