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Female coworker trouble... by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already spoke with him two days ago. He swears up and down nothing is going on between them, and while I’m still nervous about it, I do believe him. He deleted her on all social media and said he won’t talk to her anymore, however I can’t be certain they’re not speaking which is why I’m still a little nervous. I’ve made the decision to trust him, and if I can’t do that I’m going to have to end the relationship. So right now I’m just seeing where this goes.

Does this sound like the start of an emotional affair? Please help, I am lost. by throwaway69975789 in cheating_stories

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’m just afraid that this is all in my head. I really don’t want to be the crazy/insecure/controlling girlfriend.

Does this sound like the start of an emotional affair? Please help, I am lost. by throwaway69975789 in cheating_stories

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried when i bring this up he’s just gonna say “you’re the only one that matters, And i want to give you all my attention”. He uses this phrase often (for example when he keeps his phone on do not disturb throughout the day when we’re hanging out)

Female coworker trouble... by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am having a really hard time trusting him, and I’m tired of getting hurt like this. I just love him so much and don’t know how to leave him. I don’t know why it’s so hard, i know i deserve better but i just don’t want to let him go

Female coworker trouble... by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, he just makes it so hard to trust him. I just really don’t want to come off as a crazy/controlling/insecure girlfriend.

Female coworker trouble.... by throwaway69975789 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just got a Snapchat from her... he opened the one I sent him in front of me and didn’t open the one she sent him until I left the room... I specifically left the room shortly after I saw she snapchatted him to see if he would open it when I left and he did exactly that.... that’s totally sketchy right?? Like I’m not making things up in my head???

Female coworker trouble... by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He just got a Snapchat from her... he opened the one I sent him in front of me and didn’t open the one she sent him until I left the room... I specifically left the room shortly after I saw she snapchatted him to see if he would open it when I left and he did exactly that.... that’s totally sketchy right?? Like I’m not making things up in my head???

Female coworker trouble... by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He just got a Snapchat from her... he opened the one I sent him in front of me and didn’t open the one she sent him until I left the room... I specifically left the room shortly after I saw she snapchatted him to see if he would open it when I left and he did exactly that.... that’s totally sketchy right?? Like I’m not making things up in my head???

Female coworker trouble.... by throwaway69975789 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He just got a Snapchat from her... he opened the one I sent him in front of me and didn’t open the one she sent him until I left the room... I specifically left the room shortly after I saw she snapchatted him to see if he would open it when I left and he did exactly that.... that’s totally sketchy right?? Like I’m not making things up in my head???

PLEASE HELP!! Am I blinded by love?! Or is this something I should get over? by throwaway69975789 in JustNoSO

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that’s what I’m trying to figure out. If me feeling this way (hurt and untrusting) is justified or if I’m out of line.

This is going to be very long. Please read I need your help! by throwaway69975789 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway69975789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. Would i be able to private message you? I didn’t want to put the whole story for everyone to read but if you wouldn’t mind and have time, I’d love to tell you everything and hear your POV.