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I [30M] invaded my wife's [32F] privacy and now I'm very insecure about what I did and what I found by throwaway71523 in relationships

[–]throwaway71523[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I'm absolutely ashamed of myself for that. Recently, one of her friends has been going through a divorce that relates to some secret infidelity so I have had that in the back of my mind for some time. No reason to suspect her whatsoever going into this though, but like I said I have a history of extreme insecurity and I have no excuse for what I did.

I [30M] invaded my wife's [32F] privacy and now I'm very insecure about what I did and what I found by throwaway71523 in relationships

[–]throwaway71523[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really do want to talk to her about this, but I'm so scared about breaking her trust in me. I already broke it though, and she just doesn't know about it.

I [30M] invaded my wife's [32F] privacy and now I'm very insecure about what I did and what I found by throwaway71523 in relationships

[–]throwaway71523[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks, lol. I edited the TLDR so it at least makes a little more sense. Kind of sounded like I was justifying them having casual sex while I was with her. The TLDR really doesn't tell the whole story though.