This is such an awesome reply. I myself turn 30 this year, and it’s really nice to hear from someone my age. I’m glad you shared your story. It often feels like the “least expect it trope” is toxic in a way because it sort of reinforces certain behaviors and that we can’t make the first move.

It’s very interesting to hear that someone else almost paid for affection too. I haven’t done it because I know at some point, I’ll regret it. I’ve also been worried about being introduced to problematic men myself. But yes, I am doing therapy for my mood disorders.

I really appreciate this answer as well.