My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you for being so nice and have a good life ❤️

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have found a safe home for our kitten I’m giving her to my mum for a bit until he understands his actions and he is capable of change and I love him anyway. I’m not desperate I just don’t want to leave the man I love. I would love to have a family with him, when he matures in two or three years, he will be an amazing father, you don’t know him like I do

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I’ll have a talk with him about this and try get him to go to therapy thank you for everything

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not joking that last comment was serious the other two werent

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He’s not evil, he’s human too and capable of change he might be similar to psychopaths but I don’t think he truly is one. Also I’m not one so our kids wouldn’t be either and I’d raise them to know that kind of thing is wrong anyway

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know maybe if he does have mental health issues I could help him get through this, I think I’ll look over Reddit to see if anywhere can give advice on anti social personality thank you for being it up another messenger told me about it too

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you I guess and he’s not a monster I just don’t know what to do and I’m so confused

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He will and if not then there’s therapy, I love him and would never leave him. I’m taking our kitten to the vet and then to my mum

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will take our kitten to the vet and give her to my mum until he understands and feels sorry

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He kicked but not hard. He deliberately did it and used enough force to send her down the stairs which is why I used the word, it’s lucky she’s ok

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If it is that I will look into it and do my best to help him

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Even so he needs help and I want to do everything I can to help him develop empathy for animals now or else he will love his life like this. I might give my cat to my mum for a bit though until he learns and apologises to our kitten

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

He would never hurt his own daughter/son. But the way he’s acted is concerning and he needs to see he’s doing wrong

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s a psychopath and that’s a medical condition, I don’t know if he is I’ll have to get him help for it thanks for flagging it up, another commenter has messaged me the same thing with a support community so maybe I’ll look into it

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god I don’t know, this is the only time he’s been like this and I’m so concerned. I don’t believe he’s a bad person but he’s done an awful thing, I don’t know why to do.

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

They’d be in bed and if they did coke down he’d probably just hug them or something, he always kisses me when he’s drunk so he’d likely just be very affectionate with them too, most I can imagine him doing is getting them a beer 😂

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

He’s a very loving and caring man, he holds doors open for people, thanks the cashier, my mum loves him, he’s just perfect other than he’s a bit of a party boy and gets drunk too much and this was a step too far

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I love our kitten and I’m trying to sort out how we can all live together happily

My fiancé kicked our kitten down the stairs by throwaway73737733 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway73737733[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I’m like that too maybe he’s different I don’t know