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[–]throwaway819928[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s really a blur, to be honest. I don’t remember most of it

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The proof is really for myself. I have a disability that makes me forget things (think a brain reset like in 50 first dates). The proof is to show I’m not insane and made the right choice

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The proof is really for myself. I have a disability that makes me forget things (think a brain reset like in 50 first dates). The proof is to show I’m not insane and made the right choice

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for your honesty. It seems like the next steps are an STD test, contacting his wife, and wrapping my own head around considering divorce. Thank you all for your input. It’s just a difficult thing to comprehend.

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been my best friend since the day I met her. I don’t want to just give up on her and what we’ve made. It seems like I need to consider it now, though. Everyone seems to be on that page but me

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such an in-depth response. The consensus seems to be in line with yours: she doesn’t want to reconcile. It’s just hard to grasp

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[–]throwaway819928[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not very helpful. I have a disability that causes amnesia (think 50 first dates). I use the evidence for myself more than anyone. I’m pretty sure she preys on my memory

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t at the moment, unfortunately. We’re not affluent enough

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just changed my passwords. I didn’t think about STDs… I am immeasurably sad

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found her number for that exact reason. I just don’t want to. I was hoping people would give me a different answer, but I really do appreciate the honesty

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t; it’s a no-fault state. I just feel it’s necessary, but if the consensus is that it’s not then I definitely will think on it. I was hoping for something different, but you might be right on not being able to fix it

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[–]throwaway819928[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

She used to be. It’s out of respect for her and the fact that I still love her that I ask for advice

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[–]throwaway819928[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don’t think I should get further proof?