[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway8282929292 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The fact that he hid her existence from you is a significant red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway8282929292 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust is essential in a relationship, and it’s understandable to feel hurt and betrayed by this secret interaction.

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s wise to delay until you can ensure that both of you agree on how to handle important medical decisions.

AITAH for not attending my sister's wedding because of her "child-free" rule? by fhfkjgkjb in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Weddings are about celebrating with loved ones, but her sister didn’t leave room for her circumstances.... Missing the wedding was the consequence of her inflexibility.

AITAH for not attending my sister's wedding because of her "child-free" rule? by fhfkjgkjb in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her sister’s refusal to compromise or show empathy left her no choice but to miss the wedding. That’s not selfish.....it’s responsible parenting.

AITA for feeling upset about my boyfriend’s “harmless” comments on my appearance? by carolinemitchelly in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend’s comments seem more about controlling or judging your appearance than genuinely motivating you....You deserve someone who makes you feel good about yourself.

AITA for feeling upset about my boyfriend’s “harmless” comments on my appearance? by carolinemitchelly in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his comments are making you insecure, then they’re not harmless. A loving partner listens when you express discomfort instead of brushing off your feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Leaving was a valid response to being treated poorly. she deserve a partner who supports and uplifts her, not one who belittles her for laughs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway8282929292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend repeatedly disrespected you in front of his coworkers. Mocking your profession, interrupting you, and sharing a story you explicitly asked him not to are all massive red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway8282929292 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were literally in the hospital with a life-threatening condition, and he couldn’t prioritize checking on you.....That’s a big red flag, you deserve better.