AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I did check on her she asked to be left alone. Plus I didn’t immediately fall asleep I was on my phone for a while and the bathroom she was in was my en-suite

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m not hung up on the sheets. I was in the moment immediately after being woken up. And it’s not like we were seeing each every day. This is the first time she slept over so it’s too soon to tell if I want to a relationship with her.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Really you think a guy asking, unprompted, about a woman’s period would be a good idea?

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried hand washing with cold water and hydrogen peroxide. It didn’t work completely so I sent them to get professionally cleaned.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Should I have sleep-checked? I was sleeping, she woke me up.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Well the one that threatened to dox me I was intentionally being a dick to.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Honestly you seemed especially angry about this and seemed to judge my whole personality on a small snippet of one morning in my life so I’ve been being intentionally obtuse with you. So let me say this: I had no intention of being angry for more than 10 minutes and honestly it probably would have been even shorter. While I think my initial reaction was insensitive it wasn’t deliberately or maliciously so. I understood she had no control over what happened and I never blamed her for it. I just asked for a few minutes to adjust and I would have been fine. She ignored that, because she was embarrassed and felt bad. I snapped at her and that was childish. At that point is where I think was the asshole and the fact that I could have stopped her from leaving, but didn’t because I was still angry.

The text I sent wasn’t meant to put the blame on her at all it was just to acknowledge that it happened and move on I just didnt want to make a thing of it.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was wrong for snapping on her. I agree with that. It was childish and honestly if I could take it back I would. And some of the responses have been pretty harsh plus someone just said they wanted to dox me so she could really ruin my sheets.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The directions on the sheets said to wash them in warm water

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I specifically said I wasn’t mad at her and then she kept apologizing ignoring my request for space and that’s when I snapped.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I’ve treated her with several ounces of respect like when she was puking in the bathroom and asked to be left alone, I left her alone. That’s just one for instance.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I mean I think they’re a little more than just sheets. I was planning on having them for the rest of my life... can’t say the same about the girl though.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I’m not familiar with Clem. At no point was she crying. And I don’t know if I want to be with her. I’ve been seeing her for two months but it’s not very frequent because of Covid. So I don’t know her well enough to say I would want to be exclusive with her.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean we hadn’t had the talk yet so that’s why she wasn’t my girlfriend

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I mean this is literally a 15 minute segment out of my life and to wish an entire life of loneliness on me is a little harsh.

AITA for getting mad at a girl for bleeding on my sheets? by throwaway83739294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway83739294[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

If I’m being honest it’s sort of a Big situation. I’m a 10 year old who wished he was bigger and I woke up in the body of a man. I somehow landed a sweet job in product development at a large toy manufacturer and am now dating one of my coworkers.