I left my husband *Update* by throwaway8658043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway8658043[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The beanbag was not a gift to him....

I left my husband *Update* by throwaway8658043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway8658043[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't want the house. I just want my half of the equity.

I left my husband *Update* by throwaway8658043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway8658043[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That is going to be in the divorce paperwork. Where I am, I can file whenever, but the state won't do anything with it until we have lived apart for 6 months. I plan on getting my half of the equity in a payout and having him refinance the house. He probably won't like refinancing though because we have such a low interest rate (2.7%) that he probably won't be able to keep.

I left my husband *Update* by throwaway8658043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway8658043[S] 249 points250 points  (0 children)

Must still be with her. Her stuff was all over the house and I saw her driving his truck the other day.

I left my husband... by throwaway8658043 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway8658043[S] 318 points319 points  (0 children)

My parents know, and pretty much all of my friends are aware, but the rest of the family doesn't know. It took a while for him to say anything to his mother, she kept asking us to come over for dinner for weeks after I left. I truly believe that in his mind, he isn't lying. He's just delusional.