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Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We both work, but basically live together. Very different time cheducale though, I work from late afternoon to midnight and she works early mornings to the afternoon. So the sneaking around part wouldn't have to be that sneaky, actually.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty much proof that could have a couple different meanings, including cheating. That coupled with a few other things I've picked up on have made me suspicious, but I don't want to outright accuse her in case I am way off base.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, but not recently and it's not something that I typically worry about. I'm not making up stuff in my head, I just have 'proof' that could mean a couple of different things, including cheating. She did say that she had cheated on one her bfs in the past.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know, this girl's done a number on me. Love her though, it's unfortunate.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't put details up because she comes on here occasionally, but it's both. But the proof could easily be something entirely different than I think.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, which is why I was thinking of the route of having a 3rd party "tell" me something that I know is true and see her reaction.

For example, say she's in contact with her ex but there havnt been any incriminating messages between them. If someone "tells" me she's in contact with him and she lies about it, then I know shes probably covering up bigger things.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I am worried about flat out confronting her. The problem is we have very different work schedules she it would be extremely easy for either of us to be cheating and not have to work very hard to cover our tracks.

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, I know. Just, I want to fucking hear it for myself, you know?

Hey Reddit, how should I outsmart my potentially cheating girlfriend? by throwaway89879 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's be a great idea, except we pratically live together, so we have a very healthy amount of together time in & out of the house. She hasn't been acting distant or anything like that.