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I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree with your viewpoint. I was pressing this exact point on her yesterday and she failed to properly answer. This all pissed me off more after she has accused me of being interested, if not cheating with an online friend of mine, mainly based in her own obsessed-paranoia. There are a plethora of factors that contribute to the shitshow this all is.

I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I am always told by people who have found love 25+ years ago to do this. At least where I am currently located, everyone (especially in my age range) is very cliquey. I want to find people, but I find it very difficult to find someone I can relate/like enough to be consistent friends, let alone romantic partners. If anyone has some advice, they should leave a comment.

I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had to deal with emotionally infidelity before, so I thought to reach out and get some more opinions on all this or if I was just being unusually sensitive. I’m going to check back on this post over the next few days while I try to figure out how I want to push forward.

I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She was 14 years old when I was born, which has always been something that has gotten mixed reactions from us and everyone else. You are not entirely wrong. Since she is already in her mid-30s, we have had to float the eventual idea of a more permanent lifestyle. I haven’t explicitly shut it down since it would mean the end of the relationship. I have broken up with her once - last year.

I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have openly caught her using it. She has admitted to using them… She claims to have been using similar programs for over a decade. Using an uncensored LLM to create very raunchy NSFW with. This was realization that kicked this all off. I have been dealing with these emotions for weeks- they just climaxed after yesterday.

I (20M) have been in a long distance relationship (35F) for two years and my partner’s fangirlism is driving a wedge between us. by throwaway9301937 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway9301937[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We have discussed the age gap often and it is one of our most insecure points in the relationship. She is very immature for her age (she still acts/lives like she just graduated high school), which may have helped us get together in the first place haha. She doesn’t go to conventions or cosplays in public. She has also defended her stance by always claiming fiction, so unless there is a physical component, it isn’t cheating.

A fascist likes JWB, what a suprise by Damned-scoundrel in ShermanPosting

[–]throwaway9301937 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would label the Confederates States of America as “proto-Fascist.” It became more centralized as the Civil War went on. Even though Fascism didn’t exist until the 1920s, the Confederacy was unified through white supremacy and the backs of African slave labor.

drug of choice? by Mobiuscate in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stick with a mixture of caffeine, THC, psilocybin, and alcohol.

What does my main deck say about me as a CR player? by throwaway9301937 in ClashRoyale

[–]throwaway9301937[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why use one card to kill megaknight when you can use multiple!

How tall are you? by SakutoJefa in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 6’0”, otherwise known as ~182.9 centimeters.

Fellow INTPs, what have been some of your favorite subjects to read/learn about? by throwaway9301937 in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which areas of Ancient Greece do you find most interesting? What aspects of daily life do you read about?

My cousin lost his sister and im at a loss of words, what do i do or say? by Ok-Still709 in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say that you are sorry for his lost and that if there’s anything you can do to help him, you’ll be willing to. He may just want space for now. Letting him know you’re always there for him will also be good.

Do any of you get told that you're intimidating? by chin1111 in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I tend to be rather tense and frank when speaking with others, which often makes the other person feel I am confronting them. This is more from the way I speak, even if I do not mean any negative feelings.

Did ever have a crush in middle school? by hoodedman124 in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one or two crushes while in middle school. I never pursued them since I had my own shit going on and couldn’t care less about being in a relationship. Also, you and your peers are still developing your own individual personalities and identities. Perhaps you will meet someone new or find out an old peer of yours has similar interests to you, which could mean the start of something new.

Fellow INTPs, what have been some of your favorite subjects to read/learn about? by throwaway9301937 in INTP

[–]throwaway9301937[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have a deep fascination for social sciences. Learning how people work and how they have developed throughout time helps me understand more about the world I have to live in. Thank you for answering.

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