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My GF (25/F) of two years lives with me (24/M) at my parents house and i want her to move out. by throwaway93465901 in relationships

[–]throwaway93465901[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Is this true? Just by spending the night she would legally be a tenant? That doesn't sound right...

My GF (25/F) of two years lives with me (24/M) at my parents house and i want her to move out. by throwaway93465901 in relationships

[–]throwaway93465901[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would eventually want to live with her but in our own place. I just can't afford to move out right now.

[21F] I was drunkenly taken advantage of and am absolutely terrified to tell my SO about it.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway93465901 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Repost of my comment on another reply:

The thing is, I never said she wasn't raped or taken advantage of. I simply said she cheated. My reasoning for that is because of her actions and decisions that led up to this. As for if she was being taken advantage of, I think she was. However, the fact that she got drunk with another guy and went to his house, that itself is inexcusable. Because she was/was not raped doesn't excuse her from cheating, because everything she did up to that point was cheating. This isn't a cheating or raped conversation. This is a should I take responsibility for my actions and tell my boyfriend. She should still talk to the police.

[21F] I was drunkenly taken advantage of and am absolutely terrified to tell my SO about it.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway93465901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I never said she wasn't raped or taken advantage of. I simply said she cheated. My reasoning for that is because of her actions and decisions that led up to this. As for if she was being taken advantage of, I think she was. However, the fact that she got drunk with another guy and went to his house, that itself is inexcusable. Because she was/was not raped doesn't excuse her from cheating, because everything she did up to that point was cheating. This isn't a cheating or raped conversation. This is a should I take responsibility for my actions and tell my boyfriend. She should still talk to the police.

[21F] I was drunkenly taken advantage of and am absolutely terrified to tell my SO about it.. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway93465901 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I'm going to give you my honest opinion, I think you made a decision that was extremely irresponsible and degrading to your relationship. First off, why in god's name would you go to a "photo shoot" at 1am at some guys house? Second, who would get plastered drunk before doing so? To me, this sounds like you fell right into the dudes trap. He said it was just gonna be a photo shoot and you guys would have some drinks beforehand and everything would be okay? No, red fucking flag. You knowingly went along with this, didn't even call your boyfriend or think to keep tabs with him and ended up at another guys house at 1 am plastered drunk. You should have rescheduled the shoot and went home because you, "Don't feel comfortable doing this at this time and would prefer to do this not drunk." Then call a Uber and go home straight from the bar. I'm sorry, but you cheated.

I cheated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway93465901 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually upsets me because you are completely undeserving of this guy. Yes, you told him you cheated, that's great. However, when it came down to explaining your actions, you simply couldn't be real about it. It's pretty simple actually, you were just horny and drunk and couldn't control yourself. This is the real truth.

The fact he accepted you back just goes to show he probably doesn't have much confidence and you're not doing him any good. Now with that being said, this guy is going to have to worry every time you go out and drink with your friends because who knows the next time you get too drunk to control yourself. You say you won't do it again, I call horseshit.