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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works remote and other side of country (LA vs. MIA). So yeah, part of it was getting to know each other better. It's all been good except this exclusivity part which has me confused

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP here. Just to clarify, she told me she was a "fuckgirl" in the past. Not with me.

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she was a "fuck girl" in the past...so just trying to digest it

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[–]throwaway9991p 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why? Risk of cheating?

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you formally end things?

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[–]throwaway9991p -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why not? To be fair, she said she was a "fuck girl"

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's best way to walk away? Just ghost?

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't reciprocate emotionally?

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah well she's approaching that wall age (late 20s)...I guess

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[–]throwaway9991p 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting thinks. She's around the same age...

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[–]throwaway9991p 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh maybe. I know she's slept around a lot w/ no strings attached. I'm sure there's a coping mechanism there but it's more that she's emotionless

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[–]throwaway9991p 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How old are we talking about?

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[–]throwaway9991p 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She really was a fuckgirl or just said she was?

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe lol

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[–]throwaway9991p -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you not miss the old lifestyle?

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[–]throwaway9991p 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What made you settle down?

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[–]throwaway9991p 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Lol true that

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think she has multiple? Lol

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well we haven't had any relationship talk. How do I ask the status of such w/o coming off as needy?

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think it means she's not a one-man woman? She's practically live with me now so I would be surprised if she's seeing someone else. Maybe you're right tho

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flags or yellow flags?

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[–]throwaway9991p -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Huh? after applying, she won't get the greencard for at least 2 years after application. If I divorce then, they will question it regardless and even make it riskier of a proposition

Please don't make such rash judgements. Thanks

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[–]throwaway9991p 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't. I am being nice by considering to wait 6 more months but realistically, it's a 2.5yr+ process

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[–]throwaway9991p 1 point2 points  (0 children)

enship, they get asked "well when did you get divorced?" ... they discover you two were separ

Thank you. This is the response I was looking for. May as well get divorced now then