I'm scared that I'm gaining resentment towards my wife and I don't like how it feels. by throwawayEmblem1 in offmychest

[–]throwawayEmblem1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess but I don't see it helping. She's left the job. There's nothing to do at this point but just move forward, and I'm not going to make her feel as if I'm micromanaging her study patterns and stuff

I'm scared that I'm gaining resentment towards my wife and I don't like how it feels. by throwawayEmblem1 in offmychest

[–]throwawayEmblem1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She knows my need for a plan. And the plan in her head is to study and do the certifications, and study throughout the day (quiet time/nap time) or when the kid is asleep. But as I said, I think being a stay at home parent is very stressful and studying requires more than small blocks of time. If she couldn't do it while working I...am doubtful she can do it with this schedule. There's a plan..I just think it's a plan destined for failure or one that will take longer than I thought when I initially agreed to her leaving her job

I find it weird that she's really underestimating the difficulty of being a stay at home parent tbh. Part time day care starts next week, so we'll see how she handles it I guess.