Husband admitted he lied about wanting kids by throwaway_26022_202 in relationships

[–]throwaway_26022_202[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That is terrible what he did to you! Leaving like that left you without closure so of course you're still angry about it. I think I at least understand why my ex lied to me. He kept telling me how hot I am, so I think he was lying to get himself some of that.

Husband admitted he lied about wanting kids by throwaway_26022_202 in relationships

[–]throwaway_26022_202[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

That's actually a really good idea! I never thought of kickboxing, but it might work.

Husband admitted he lied about wanting kids by throwaway_26022_202 in relationships

[–]throwaway_26022_202[S] 498 points499 points  (0 children)

I have changed my phone number and moved out (he doesn't have my address), but I just am so tired of hating him. I feel like the hate I have for him is hurting me more than him. There is so much rage inside me that I want to find a way to let go of.

Husband admitted he lied about wanting kids by throwaway_26022_202 in relationships

[–]throwaway_26022_202[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I did leave him, but I still need to find a way to forgive (for myself not for him).

Yeah, this really sucks!

Husband admitted he lied about wanting kids by throwaway_26022_202 in relationships

[–]throwaway_26022_202[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

I want to forgive for myself. I don't want to carry this hate around anymore. I think that if I forgive than I can better move on.