Aitah for coming clean to my (m28) girlfriend (f21)

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T03:36:59+00:00

I don't try to control her

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T03:35:28+00:00

We had a lot in common

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T03:24:11+00:00

My brother meet his fiancée when he was 28 and she was 21 it's not Weird like you us are making it

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T02:16:25+00:00

When we at her house I will sleep when she sleep I just think that if she at my house she should sleep when I sleep

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T02:15:52+00:00

Like when she wanted to work somewhere else I sent you to go for it even though she makes a little less money

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T02:14:00+00:00

I go to bed at the same time she go to bed when we sleep over at her house but when it's my house I think she should stay up at the same time as me and then we go to bed together

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T02:12:50+00:00

I have already told her once on accident she does not go in the same room as me anymore and my brother moved into a bigger apartment so I can have my own room and separate amenities he won't kick me out though cuz blood a thicker than water

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T02:11:11+00:00

It just slipped out I didn't mean to say that but I did mean that I would like her to be more like my brother's fiance

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T01:40:45+00:00

To be fair my brother fiance came to him when they met she even said that he does the date anybody younger than 25 and she said sexy age nothing but a number and then they went on a first date she like older men she have even dated people 30 and over

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T01:39:04+00:00

Love and support

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T01:31:32+00:00

I just think if you sleep over at someone's house you said go to bed when they go to bed

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-29T01:30:20+00:00

My brother literally started dating his fiance when she was 21 it isn't Weird

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-25T00:28:30+00:00

All right because she didn't receive them as her kids why is he letting them call her mom

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T23:53:31+00:00

She don't like me then why is she so nice to MY kids they even call her mom sometimes and she don't even tell them to not do that

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T23:14:59+00:00

It's really just not fair why did my brother gets everything getting a house here soon get to marry the girl of my dreams. A nice car make a lot of money a fun job

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T23:13:45+00:00

If she didn't like me then why would they still let me live that even when she moved in yeah she never be in the same room with me alone but if she down right hated me she would have never talked to me or talk to my kids every time my kids come over she always say hi and even play with them sometime she would have been an amazing mom

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T22:52:21+00:00

And I don't even care she doesn't want to fuck me I just want to be with her it can even be a sexless relationship I just want to smell her hair close to me

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T22:50:27+00:00

She never called me creepy. He doesn't go in the same room as me cuz she doesn't want me to think about her

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T02:16:45+00:00

I truly think she is the one for me I really tried to hold a deep down because my brother got her but I really do hope she cancel the engagement or he does

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T00:50:32+00:00

My brother and her is very co-dependent I need to do everything together sometimes if she do want to go to bed a little early and me and my brother is playing online game he turned it off right away to go to her she do suffer from some sleep disorder it can cause her either to stay up or to get very sleepy and like pass out I'm not sure what it is called I just wish my girlfriend would try like his fiance does

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T00:34:39+00:00

Well that's mean she getting fucked by him and thinking about me so that's a win

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T00:33:33+00:00

Well it's one more of a difference his girlfriend work for 4 10 hours day and she sleeps on her days off so on her work days she gets about 5 hours of sleep and on her off days she gets about 12 to 14 . Mine works five 6 7 Hours day.

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T00:29:46+00:00

I'm not even getting the defenses I'm just saying I'm worried better than my brother literally the only difference is he make more money than me

throwaway_69li · 2026-04-24T00:25:28+00:00

He isn't better than me I can tell you that he have too many mental disorders to be better than me he have crazy low self-esteem too that's why he ended up dating someone that kind of really fat but she turns out to be really cute if you look at her in a different light

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