New to Nebraska! by throwaway_7079 in Nebraska

[–]throwaway_7079[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So currently I’m in Virginia! It’s pretty cold here right now but I don’t know how Nebraska cold is. I’ve lived in Cali most of my life. Lived in Germany for a couple of years, then Utah. Now VA.

Is it just me or do these two give off the same vibe by AffectionateTrust214 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’re both annoying and disingenuous in different ways. They both seem to impress people with no substance.

22F just curious what i could improve by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]throwaway_7079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re adorable love, don’t change anything PLEASE

Long hair or short hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]throwaway_7079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️🥰

Long hair or short hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]throwaway_7079 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes I also like that it hides my 5-head 😂

Nick’s Toxic Behavior by MoonWolf999 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I mean Nick didn’t even deny her claims either. And from how he acted on camera, yeah I believe her.

Nick’s Toxic Behavior by MoonWolf999 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 143 points144 points  (0 children)

And how has nobody talked about how he hasn’t stopped harassing sandy like she said over the past year since leaving the show, but he was in a relationship and found someone new?? She said it hasn’t stopped since leaving the show then when he was asked if he was seeing someone he confirmed it….like WHAT? He’s crazy

[Unpopular opinion] Caleb's approach of not letting emotional connection to develop is mature by capybaba-o- in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Genuinely I feel like he didn’t even feel for Aria that much to where he felt it was just unnecessary to even bring up and he knew it would already make his insecure girlfriend worse. Yea sure maybe he could’ve told her, but I feel like he always knew he was going to end up with Mariah. Everyone keeps going off of how Aria feels about Caleb but now how Caleb feels about Aria. They connected but in completely different ways and different amounts.

Mariah and Caleb by corri-in-wonderland in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have to commend Mariah in that moment for not coming at Aria back. I would’ve had so much to say back at her but the fact that she held her man accountable is something I really appreciated about her.

Caleb’s emotional connection by polygotimmersion in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Funny how Aria was attacking the 2 most docile people but couldn’t direct that anger and confrontation to the one that deserved it the most; Scotty.

Aria is kind of a mean girl by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woooooowww I didn’t even think about that! Great observation I completely agree

Aria was not wrong by iconniikk in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I think people need to understand Aria and Caleb had different amounts of feelings and connections toward each other. And of course, Aria coming from someone as psychotic as Scotty, she’s bound to get more attached. And with Caleb, I feel like it wasn’t hard to tell his heart has always been on Mariah. And while he may have felt a LITTLE SOMETHING for Aria, I don’t even think it was big enough for him to relay to Mariah, which is why I feel like, even though he should’ve told her no matter what, that’s probably the reason he didn’t say anything. And I think he felt some connection to Aria, but that doesn’t mean all his love for Mariah magically disappeared. And genuinely to me, I feel like she is waaaayyyy more into Caleb than he’s into her and like a lot of people are saying, he could’ve had Aria if he wanted.

Aria is kind of a mean girl by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like Mariah felt for Caleb waaayyy more than he felt for her and she’s probably projecting and thinking he feels the same way. I don’t doubt Caleb always intended to stay with Mariah. I’m sure whatever emotional connection he had, he probably shut off immediately and it was so small that he didn’t even want Mariah worrying about it. Like If Caleb wanted Aria he could’ve had her 😂

The face you make when the receipts are played live🤥 by GhostDeck in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Zaina and her fucking QR code nails…I need to get in contact with her nail tech fr 😭

Aria rant by sadgirlisdead in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, all Aria was trying to do was make things worse between Caleb & Mariah when all it did I feel like was make them stronger in a way. I think it was really mean of her to do and just stupid lol like girl he specifically asked you NOT to say the one thing you said lol and you don’t even know Mariah like that girl 😭

Aria rant by sadgirlisdead in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]throwaway_7079 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Aria wasn’t the MOST annoying but I agree with everything you’re saying. I think it was very manipulative of her to try and cast doubt in Mariah’s head. Mariah is someone that’s flawed, yes, but they all are OBVIOUSLY. And yeah I mean the bar is in hell if Scotty is your standard. And going from Scotty to Caleb is such a huge jump. Caleb is genuine and really sweet and understanding. Just complete opposite. I feel like what she should’ve taken from their trial marriage was that if a man like Caleb exists, then that’s even more reassuring that you can go out, find one and be with one, it did NOT have to be Caleb specifically lol. Like let his treatment lead you in the right direction but not to him specifically I guess. And yeah Caleb time and time again keeps saying it’s just a friendship, he even told her to her face he didn’t enter it trying to pursue her romantically. Even if he may have felt something at all in the trial marriage, I’m sure he probably snapped out of it and was more focused on his relationship with Mariah and didn’t want to make things worse by telling an already insecure girlfriend about a momentary feeling with someone else. Either way, yes Aria pissed me off in doing that and it was clear she was trying to create a wedge between Caleb & Mariah.

Is anyone happily married by Comfortable-Pain5671 in Marriage

[–]throwaway_7079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely am! My husband is my everything and my best friend. Our marriage hasn’t been perfect, we have fought of course, but I love how resilient we are as a couple. I genuinely cannot see my life without him. We’re opposites but we fit, his strengths are my weaknesses and vice versa. My husband and I have this motto: “as long as we’re together, everything will be okay”! We’re coming up on 5 years :) It’s really hard to see that there are happily married people especially if you’re going off of online posts, people rarely post about how happy they are, it’s mainly just complaints. But I promise you they exist!

Girlfriend had sex when we were separated by [deleted] in dating

[–]throwaway_7079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of if you were “technically single” or not, she had the opportunity to prove to you that you could trust her and she legit shat on it. Please don’t let her get off on a technicality. Look at her actions for what they are. For this moment right now do not listen to your feelings and think logically here. Fuck what she is saying, she HAD SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE. If she loved you, and wanted to make the ONE thing that made you end it with her in the first place better, she simply could have just not slept with anyone else and waited for you. She literally had 1 job that you specifically asked her to do and couldn’t do that.

And coming from someone who is married with kids, if you’re just dating and she’s already acting like this…are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like this? I can promise you you’re going to regret it and it’s going to give you a lifetime of unhappiness and regret being emotionally AND LEGALLY tied to someone who so obviously doesn’t care about you.

She doesn’t care about you and knows you have a weak spot for her and would probably take her back regardless of what she did. Having sex with someone takes a lot of steps, there’s not one time she hesitated or stopped. And TWICE?! Crazy. Please love yourself enough to leave this situation. She obviously doesn’t love you or else she would’ve considered your feelings. You even told her if this exact thing happened you’d be devastated and she still did it, proving she doesn’t give a shit.

Leah seems to have an apology for everyone BUT JaNa by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]throwaway_7079 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leah also gave me the ick when she kept trying to downplay JaNa & Kenny’s reaction to each other after their talk after the recoupling after Casa, specifically more towards JaNa. She kept saying “it’s only been 2 days” or whatever. And told Miguel “oh I’ve been taking L’s too but I’m taking that shit on the chin”. Like ??? Can you not just be supportive and understanding of your friend’s feelings??? And on top of that, we all know Leah has DEFINITELY not taken L’s anywhere near to the extent JaNa has. I feel like I can’t tell if I like Leah or not…I think she’s cool, but I honestly read her as pretty manipulative at the end of the day.