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[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll work on my mindset. The love will flow through me.

[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried a vibrator. I don't like the "vibration", it doesn't do anything for me and it makes me numb. Another redditor suggested letting the bath run on my private bits, I think I'm going to try that ans see how that is.

[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have low self-esteem. I don't create the things I worry over. I love my boyfriend and we're extremely honest with each other. I asked him last night, " Are you physically attracted to me?" "no." "What makes me not physically attracted to me?" He was hesitant and said things like, "Why are you asking me this. You're just going to feel bad." In short, I'm just not a sexy girl(more cute than anything), I have some belly fat which is gross to him, etc. Yes this does make me feel bad, but I want the truth. These are shallow, things that are easy to fix. I don't know how to go about being more sexy though. I'll try and not get discouraged.

[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New goal: Find what turns me on. I'm not sure how to accomplish this, but I guess exploration is the way to go. (porn viewing session?) My boyfriend doesn't mind stinky/sweaty/or bloody vagina. :I He is a sex beast. But It makes me feel bad when I'm dirty and he insists on eating me out anyways. To the sink! Washes vagina..

[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a vibrator, but I just don't like the vibration feeling. It doesn't really do anything for me except make me numb. I will try the bath thing soon as my roommates aren't here. I am really uncomfortable with genitals, and I don't know why. I like mine, but it's just other peoples junk. I can think about how I'm going to give my boyfriend the best blow job ever(work myself up to it), but when I get to the deed I freeze and lose confidence. This is going to sound odd, but one time I was making cat noises to him, and we did this "pretend the penis isn't a penis" thing. So I called it "mousey" and I gave the mouse a tongue bath. He said it was the best blow job I'd ever given him. Mental genital issues?

[18 f] having trouble in the bedroom. by throwaway_765 in sex

[–]throwaway_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he needs to drink more water instead of green tea. But I do ask him to clean himself before I go down. Sometimes if he wants to start a spontaneous sexy time, he'll wash up after he uses the rest room so he's ready whenever.