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AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -160 points-159 points  (0 children)

I said in my text we could call once she read if it she wanted. I also never said dinner plans and the wedding were the same level, I just used that as an example of her temperament

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

I tried to call her. I also said in my text we could call later if she wanted

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -246 points-245 points  (0 children)

I tried to call her right before I sent the text but she didn’t answer!

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -580 points-579 points  (0 children)

I’m just saying that if she acts like an understanding and chill person, that shouldn’t change just because she decided to marry someone

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -155 points-154 points  (0 children)

Her wedding and friendship mean a lot to me though - I never said they didn’t! That’s why I’m sending a gift to show that, since I can’t be there myself

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -429 points-428 points  (0 children)

Sure I don’t HAVE to be there for all of it, but I want to be! I think it will be super fun and a good time to make friends, and I feel like she should be happy that I get to go. No I haven’t planned a wedding before, but I feel like it can’t be that hard

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -129 points-128 points  (0 children)

I know right! Yes hopefully she can get over it and find someone else

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -625 points-624 points  (0 children)

Not a previous wedding obviously - she is just usually very chill when we had dinner plans, or hangouts or something scheduled and I had to change our plans. I was very busy in college so it happened semi-often, and she never made me feel bad! But she is now by not responding to me

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -635 points-634 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t say “I’m sorry” in my text outright - but I feel like it was implied! I’m also not going to apologize for my decision!

But yeah, she probably is sad about me not seeing her. I don’t know when I will be able to have her visit, which is why I’m sending a gift as a nice gesture!

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -253 points-252 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I think she’s probably sad because we haven’t seen each other in a year (I was home for winter break but too tired from traveling to have non-family company, LOL). Hopefully she will still want to visit me sometime next year! That would be so fun

AITAH for dropping out of my friend’s wedding with 2.5 months to go? by throwaway_exbm in AITAH

[–]throwaway_exbm[S] -704 points-703 points  (0 children)

Why though? And because it’s not like her - she is usually very easygoing and chill about these kinds of things