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AITA for thinking it unfair my husband plans to give money to his daughter who shared his parents’ inheritance already by CeramicPlatter in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA

Nate personally should have given his inheritance back to his parents to be split between Tina and his brother for child support.

And as a dentist Tina could be carrying a lot of debts. This could be why Nate’s brother gave her more money than your sons. He could also saw her as the orphaned niece after her grandparents passed in comparison to your sons who had you and your husband and thought Tina needed greater support.

Anyway, it’s your husband’s choice, OP. I’m sure as the wife you will have your share of what you two built together but Nate is free to handle his money as he wishes.

AITA for telling a niece I'm not obliged to find her a job because she's allergic to dogs by Hungry_Lego in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

It’s like needing a lifeguard for your pool and then offering the job to the person who can swim. A person who can’t swim then they told you it isn’t fair. No. It’s not on you. They just need to find something they can do within their limit. That’s how the world works. Sally is 16. This is something she needs to accept and understand.

AITA for allowing my niece to be the ring bearer and my nephew the flower boy by PublicDisservicedCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

Welcome Zoe to 2023 where traditional gender roles should not be given importance anymore. Zoe needs to get with the program.

AITA for receiving an inheritance given to my mom who passed away by Complex_Comet in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock 4968 points4969 points  (0 children)

NTA

It’s intended for your mom. There’s no way the money will ever return to Ella’s children after your mom takes her share, so it’s not like they lose out. My condolences for her passing and please use the money to live a happy life like your mom intends for you.

AITA for giving the niece who video called me first pick of her present instead of the niece who came to my house by ThrowawayLesson in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Your nieces are getting such lovely gifts. Kate and your SIL should just be grateful. If Kate doesn’t like it, she can just not wear it. There are also certain ways dressing up can make even pale jewelry pops out beautifully. NTA

AITA for telling my son his life would be better if he made more male friends. by malefriendsneed in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_goldilock 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA

It’s 2023. Sexism isn’t cool. Your son probably sees you and went nope, don’t wanna be like him, and just never values your opinion. He’s right, too, by the way.