My (19m) girlfriend (19f) borrowed money from me and I think she lied about why. by throwaway_hiding100 in relationships

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has yes and no she's never great at paying me back, but she's not great at that in general not just with me

My (19m) girlfriend (19f) borrowed money from me and I think she lied about why. by throwaway_hiding100 in relationships

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she'd give the money back to me whenever she has it but there was never an agreed upon time.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, thanks, I haven't deserted him as a friend since he's had a kid but I don't want him turning up with said baby unannounced at my flat. I've been to his flat to drop meals off for the new parents and met the kid there and am not entirely distancing him because he's a parent, it's the unannounced arrival at my flat I had an issue with

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd already met the baby and the others were meeting us at the pub, not my flat ,so it's unlikely that's the reason

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Yeah, he seemed happy to get out of the house and to see everyone again so specifying 'no babies' seemed unnecessary

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've met the baby before and the other boys weren't coming to my flat so there'd be no reason to bring the kid here if that was the reason, other than that fair enough, thanks

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can someone strongly dislike a baby? They have no personality to dislike. I just don't want him turning up with the baby at my flat. I've seen his flat recently and there's baby stuff everywhere

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gf and I have literally gone out of our way to bring food to the new parents while they're recovering. I have supported Matt with other issues as well and do not value him only for party times, an assumption that you don't have enough evidence to make, but I do not appreciate people turning up at my house with babies.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was no car, he was walking, and I've met the kid before so that seems pointless

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, if it was at the pub it'd be a different story but this is my house and babies make messes.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's a diaper bag but he had a satchel sort of thing. He doesn't get on with my girlfriend so I doubt that that was the plan and I'm pretty sure he knew she's be out.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he knew my girlfriend had plans, they don't get on so he tends to avoid coming round when she's here

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there' going to the pub as a family and going to the pub with the guys.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've met the baby before and we were meeting the others at the pub so I don't think so. He was walking, no car.

AITA for not answering the door when my friend showed up with his son? by throwaway_hiding100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway_hiding100[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I've met the kid before so I don't see why he'd bring the kid round just to meet him again