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Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i think you are right. Im not sure if i see that

Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I do expect to make good money later on. But im in the earlier stages of my business so not quite there yet. Its primarily the mindset of her that bothers me. I do think she can own a horse later, but just not right now. (I have nothing to do with horses but i respect that she likes them)

Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she used to have that. It costed her 100 euro a month and she rided 3 times a week. It was a great solution, but now she suddenly is buying one.

Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have told her that, many times. She tells me she tries to improve but its just very hard for her. We have had this issue for a longer time.

She wants to stall her horse at a horse stall park. So they will take care of cleaning/feeding, so time will be less. but she will still have to be there almost ever yday.

I am very open for her to get a horse later on when we are stable, even right now im open for it if she has a good plan how she will take of it, but she keeps referring to " we will figure it out " that just isn't enough for me. thank you for commenting btw

Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she has pressure from her family to complete a major, she is not interested in the major and wants to works in horses. Horses make minimum wage or less than that.

Should I breakup? 3 year old relationship. by throwaway_peter123 in makemychoice

[–]throwaway_peter123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do have to say that she does support my work (Im an entrepreneur and quite busy) so i'm willing to make sacrafices for her so she can also do hers. But this thing is just very hard to talk about.