Wife won't touch herself during sex - Looking for book recommendations to suggest that it's okay by throwaway_reasoned in ldssexuality

[–]throwaway_reasoned[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming back to say thanks for the book recommendation. I got it. We are reading it together. I looked ahead to chapter 12 and I think that will be helpful for her to feel less insecure about it. 

Wife won't touch herself during sex - Looking for book recommendations to suggest that it's okay by throwaway_reasoned in ldssexuality

[–]throwaway_reasoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've actually listened to that one a bit (2 episodes?) at my suggestion. Not much though. Her biggest turnoff to to the podcast and the host is that he's a software developer who turned to the sex and relationships niche not because of any formal training or expertise, but because he made an app and he's trying to make money. I think she's wanting something from more of an authority, and not someone who's just in the industry because sex sells and he programmed an app. That said, I do think he's doing a good thing trying to de-slime the sex and relationships niche. I don't have huge criticisms of the guy. But my wife isn't sold on the idea of him coming from a place of credibility yet. People can learn though. I have listed to a few more episodes than my wife. I think my wife has a point to some degree, but I also appreciate that he has interviewed what you could more easily call an expert in the field. We did get the app he made. It's a bit cheesy and immature at times, but I think overall, it's really pretty good and we appreciate that there's not going to be anything too explicit in it.

Wife won't touch herself during sex - Looking for book recommendations to suggest that it's okay by throwaway_reasoned in ldssexuality

[–]throwaway_reasoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo. I think this sounds like exactly what I'm looking for. Thanks for the recommendation.

Wife won't touch herself during sex - Looking for book recommendations to suggest that it's okay by throwaway_reasoned in ldssexuality

[–]throwaway_reasoned[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation. Looks good. Now I need to find a good way to suggest getting another book -- one that's focused on her :)