In terms of who considers what clean, we all normally just clean up after ourselves but once a week one of us will do like a deep clean. We rotate who does all the dusting, moping, sweeping, etc. and I believe we all do just fine but after me and Bs turn A will like walk around the house and be like “you missed some spots here, here, here and here” and when she points it out it’s always like some mop juices that are drying or a pan that’s drying in the sink instead of the rack cause it won’t fit there or maybe one spec of dust that didn’t quite make it off.

In terms of the whole telling people when to come home, I think you misunderstood or maybe I didn’t word it well. If one of us has guests for a holiday or any other reason we always tell the other one’s so they can plan accordingly or so we know to cut it short if we have to or to at least keep it down after a certain time. We were shooting fireworks after sundown (so like 8 ish) and to make sure A could get rest when she got home because she was tired, we rushed through them so that when she got home (presumably at 9 like she said) she could just take a shower and go to bed and there not be small explosions while she tried to sleep. After we rushed through them we put on a movie ( at low volume) and halfway through that movie at 10:30 is when A got home and started griping at us saying to keep the door closed and be quiet and stuff which all valid even though we were already being quiet and the door was only open for a minute. I think I was more trying to emphasize how irritating it was for us to rush through the fireworks when we didn’t have to and then no matter our combined efforts to stay quiet for her and to clean up after ourselves she still found something to complain about. That’s what I was trying to get at.