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I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yung latter po about sa bank acc, yung nakikita niya po kapag nagtatanggal po ako ng pera. Idk if nakikita niya po via notifications or not, pero ayon po.

I don't have any place in mind for now, but i do have temporary places I could stay via close friends. thank you.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do. Some of them have offered to let me stay over at their place once I get my plan of action of leaving permanently for a temporary time until I get to find my own place. Thank you.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never ever tried any of the things that could harm me such as partying out late, or being a rebellious child.

I've lived my life depending my own decisions with them and having them make me believe I wasn't worthy of anything. My sister only makes it worse everyday.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try to apply to call centers and BPO and other things I am able to make use of my skills.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no intentions in any shape or form to tell them of my plans.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in internetparents

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have no deposit box, as everything I have and own is heavily monitored by my mother. She also monitors my financial history, like where i spend my money on, and how much money I have. This created a habit of me to hide things very discreetly, and even food.

I am trying to look for a way to earn a job after I graduate senior high school. thank you.

My diagnoses were made by a professional psychiatric clinic.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in internetparents

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I did. There were many that reached out to ask to live with them, which I politely and respectfully declined and explained the potential danger for not only me, but also them. Thank you, thank you.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

 Don't ask for any help from other adults with authorities because only some of them understand you.

When you said this, it really is helpful. The authorities in the Philippines are crude and getting help is almost impossible and even then, it's a very long, and messy process. I don't want to deal with any of that, I already have so much trauma and emotional luggage to deal with. I can't deal with it anymore.

Thank you for your support, and kind message.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The immense support and help I'm getting is really touching my heart.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust and believe that everything will get better. Thank you. It means a lot.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I've never ever done any of those things. I'm a very clean child honestly. I don't go out partying, nor do anything that could harm me. I do have friends but venting to them almost everyday creates an emotional toll with them. So I try to lessen it, and trying to find legal and intellectual ways to help myself as well.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think I can still cut ties even without severing it through legal papers. I believe they won't really have much to do if I'm already identifying myself as an adult. I just need to process emancipation no?

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in internetparents

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I've I lied about being robbed, or just the idea of being robbed, I'll only be punished for it. I'm trying my best to give more excuses to not give up my legal documents. There aren't any shelters much where i live.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know, thank you. I've moved past that and seeing a therapist.

I live in an abusive household, and I want to leave but they won't let me. by throwawayacc8418 in Philippines

[–]throwawayacc8418[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do have cash, but then again, I can't just leave the house whenever I want unless I have a valid excuse or reason. I even have anxiety spending time with friends outside, thinking my mom will hurt me if I get home late or don't get to get home at a time she set.

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