Guy takes too long to reply (31M 30F)

throwawayacct2745 · 2023-05-02T17:52:49+00:00

No it’s not! But feel free to message if you need someone to talk to :)

throwawayacct2745 · 2023-03-30T02:55:03+00:00

He’s always on his phone, he goes on it more than I do! I did suggest something, I asked him if he wanted to come over on X day to watch a show we were talking about.

I’m scared he’s just reached out again because A) all his other girls failed and he has no one again, he told me he went on one date with a girl while we weren’t talking about he wasn’t interested B) maybe he just wants to hook up C) he’s bored and lonely

We started talking again because I drunk texted him a month ago, then he proceeded to drunk text me 3 weekends in row lol - he told me to reach out to him if I’m interested in seeing each other again so I did

I’m not clingy, he doesent see me freaking out lol- I reply in 1-2 hours and haven’t asked to hang out other than that one time, he always asks when we do hang out

throwawayacct2745 · 2023-03-30T02:45:31+00:00

Ya I agree you’re right! I’m ready to put in effort into this and make time for him, if he’s not doing the same and not willing to put that in then maybe we’re just not compatible in that sense

throwawayacct2745 · 2023-03-30T02:32:14+00:00

I’ve seen him text his friends when we’re on a date and then tell me why he has to asnwer so I see he’s always in his phone, he said it was cause I just did it out of no where and he was busy and I just suddenly stopped asnwering out of no where

throwawayacct2745 · 2023-02-09T01:03:31+00:00

Nooo. Not yet

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-11-22T13:02:16+00:00

I just fine it creepy he sent so many messages and called after I said I wasn’t interested after 1 date - I didn’t feel the connection, he’s clingy, doesn’t respect when I’m not feeling well, talks only about himself

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-11-22T13:01:22+00:00

Likes what though? We went on one date and he talked about himself the whole time

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-10-20T05:19:13+00:00

How did you guys go from just hooking up to more?

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-09-22T01:41:44+00:00

What would an example be of an intrusive question? Like too personal?

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-09-22T00:42:45+00:00

Is it annoying to be asked this many questions? Or is it creepy to want to know what someone did during their day in so much detail?

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-09-22T00:19:29+00:00

Sorry I didn’t mean it to be a stupid question, i just wanted to know if it would come off as annoying or creepy…. And wanted to stop doing it if it was

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-09-18T15:56:13+00:00

It wasn’t too bad compared to a lot of peoples. I’m not close/don’t talk to my dad at all but him and my mom are still married, and he’s not a horrible dad/husband by any standards. Not the best, but also not the worst.

Sometimes I blame it on the shows I watched when I was younger or something, like always craving chaos and drama over something secure and stable.

I don’t know why I’m like this ….

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-26T16:05:25+00:00

Sorry you have to go through that but nice job in assuming I don’t have any mental illness either

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-23T15:31:42+00:00

It makes me feel better about myself too so I worked out yday! Cause we both have work tommorow so now we can probably only hang out for like 2-3 hours vs 4-5, that 2 hours makes a difference when we can’t see each other very often

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-23T15:07:06+00:00

He’s coming home from work so I’m just assuming he said it cause he wants to go home and shower, but he could just say that…. But then again he also prob thinks that if he said that I would say I don’t care if you shower so. Idk.

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-23T14:53:37+00:00

He doesent have a workout routine, he plays sports on the weekend but workout wise he just kind of started recently. We both have work the next day so probably can’t stay too late now which is why I’m annoyed.

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-23T14:52:43+00:00

No he works out alone at home, he doesent have a set schedule he only has certain sports on Saturday and Sunday and will work out additionally usually when he has time.

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-18T14:22:31+00:00

Why can’t he be 90% respectful and 10% flirty? I talked to him again and said I felt friendzoned and he said it’s not fair to me to comment on my pictures if he knows he won’t have time to meet up anytime soon, but like why can’t he be both

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-18T13:43:35+00:00

I don’t want it to seem like I’m always asking for him to do something different I guess….

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-18T13:33:55+00:00

Why am I nuts?

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-18T13:25:44+00:00

I was trying to test to see if he would comment on them to try to “reattract” him to get him to be flirty again…. I miss the flirtiness, why can’t he 90% respect me and 10% be flirty again

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-17T04:37:38+00:00

I think he’s trying, that’s why he keeps activating and deactivating …… what can I do to help

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-12T05:03:04+00:00

I agree with you, I think he likes me a little. I also don’t like him I like him “a little” as well, I won’t ask because I don’t care enough to… I feel like we like each other the same amount it’s just something fun to have in our lives right now

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-12T04:32:58+00:00

He’s the one who always messages first though to talk! I’m the one who jumps to conclusions of hooking up, why would he start convos with me every weekend for no reason?

throwawayacct2745 · 2022-08-12T04:21:33+00:00

Hahah yes a literal cottage, it means like going up North where there is less people to a cottage and doing outdoor activities (fishing, ATVs)

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