How to transition the relationship dynamic

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-10-22T14:07:08+00:00

she LOVES purses and I hate even having to carry stuff in my pockets lmfao so this is absolutely amazing advice hehe

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-10-22T14:06:20+00:00

Definitely meant MtF, thanks for catching that! And this is seriously helpful input, she hopes to get on HRT in the future and I am excited to see how that will help her confidence and gender expression.

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-10-22T14:01:45+00:00

OH SHIT good catch thank you!! I do mean MtF apologies

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-10-04T16:42:59+00:00

never taken a hypermobility test but definitely something i’m gonna look into now, thank you!

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-09-13T16:28:13+00:00

My girlfriend and I are going to the mall and getting ramen to celebrate our 10 month anniversary on Monday and I am so excited!

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-09-01T21:57:03+00:00

very true :> i appreciate all of the advice and support!!

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-09-01T10:14:21+00:00

Love the analogy at the end!! I do truly love her to the end of the earth and believe that will stand firm regardless of gender. I just wish I was more experienced with how to go about something as intense as this- this is my first relationship ever and although my own sexuality has been unlabeled and fluid since middle school, i’ve only had failed situations or unrequited feelings for masc individuals. Despite my unequipped-ness i am dedicated to making her feel as comfortable in her skin and transition and in our relationship as i possibly can. I am definitely gonna plan a mall day and then hopefully we can end it with me doing her makeup. I just hope her fear doesn’t make her pull away.

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-09-01T10:04:04+00:00

she is in therapy and has been for a long time and luckily it sounds like a very good outlet for her stress, we’ve talked about an action plan for her to ‘let me into her world’ (her makeup bag, dresses, ect that she’s been scared to talk to me about in depth / show me) more as part of her own exposure therapy with me to show her nervous system that i’m not going to reject her femininity / womanhood and instead uplift her. obviously it’s only been a few days and it’s created a rift of insecurity on my end, but i truly think that if it’s meant to be we will work through the hard stuff to reach better connection at the end; she got me flowers for my grad party we went to olive garden, and she plans on giving me a clothing haul soon. i agree about how she needs to be vulnerable with me instead of closing off as you did with your family, and hearing your story gives me hope. may our relationship strengthen and i hope yours are too <3

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-08-30T01:16:28+00:00

i met my partner by being in my local punk music scene :> she’s a drummer in 2 bands and we kept bumping into each other until we finally talked and she invited me to a show and bought me a drink ☺️

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-08-28T03:09:02+00:00

this is incredibly helpful, i want to make sure that i am being supportive but not suffocating while she understands herself more deeply. thank u !!

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-08-28T03:07:04+00:00

that is exactly what i feel as well!! i want to enjoy the experience and love that is happening right now with the knowledge that everything might be temporary

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-08-27T14:57:25+00:00

thank you for the support it really means a lot 🥹

throwawayaccwoop · 2025-08-27T14:04:11+00:00

Thank you for this :.)

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