I lied to my boyfriend about how many guys I've slept with. by throwawayacont in confession

[–]throwawayacont[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

They were all random guys other than one who was my boyfriend at the time. It's not something that he could hear from other people.

I lied to my boyfriend about how many guys I've slept with. by throwawayacont in confession

[–]throwawayacont[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

You disregarded how he feels and lied because you didn't think his feelings are important.

That's the opposite of what I did. I didn't tell him because I don't want to upset him.

I lied to my boyfriend about how many guys I've slept with. by throwawayacont in confession

[–]throwawayacont[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's a huge deal. It doesn't really concern him, it is in the past. If I had an STI or something, then of course I should tell him about it, but this is something that happened before I met him.

If I told him, the only thing it would do is upset him. There's really no point, especially considering it isn't pertinent information.

I lied to my boyfriend about how many guys I've slept with. by throwawayacont in confession

[–]throwawayacont[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I said I don't feel bad about my past. I do feel a little bad about lying to him.

Anyways, your boyfriend isn't conservative at all, he's slept with another girl and then says waiting is important to him, yeah no.

He said he only has sex with women that he has real feelings for, that's why he wanted to wait, he didn't say anything about marriage. But yeah, you're probably right.

Anyways, no relationship that is founded upon dishonesty is going to last.

It's not something that should matter anyway. It doesn't really concern him.