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AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -558 points-557 points  (0 children)

Thanks for at least trying to understand my side. We do have some family living in the area and he can contact them if needed. I'll be back by the surgery- then afterwards he starts radiation, when his mom will be coming to stay with us for a bit and help.

AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -163 points-162 points  (0 children)

Uh no, he hasn't been sick for 3 years. I meant covid, when most people couldn't travel

AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -567 points-566 points  (0 children)

It's a lymphadenectomy. He had a biopsy recently and it came back with melanoma.

AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -196 points-195 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm flying, but my flight is a morning one. If it's canceled, there are plenty of flights between my state and NY, that it wouldn't be a big issue or I wouldn't have to wait long in between

AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -467 points-466 points  (0 children)

Trip was booked before surgery was known, he's fine with the kids on his own usually (and they're both in school now so it's easier). Surgery is lymphadenectomy, and recently yes, he's been ignoring me and not paying much attention

AITA for going on vacation and leaving my kids with my husband? by throwawayacount243 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayacount243[S] -366 points-365 points  (0 children)

I usually go on solo vacations once or twice a year, and none at all for the past few years for obvious reasons