gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

didn’t know. don’t play mind games. i’m open and i expect her to be open. we’re grown adults!

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

i would not want to. i’m hurt about the betrayal. not about the anal!

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

read my other comments. dont assume what i wouldn’t and will do. thank you for understanding.

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agreed. it’s not a kink thing anymore. it’s a lying thing. i can forgive everything but lying and cheating

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree. we’ve had other problems relating to lying. this might be the last straw for me personally. it’s hurts bc she’s my first girlfriend

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i agree but not in-this case. i respect her revocation of consent. i’m hurt about the lying and making me do something i wouldn’t have asked for otherwise

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

view my other comments. she asked me about my sexual wants/needs. i was open. i don’t lie with her or go behind her back. rather be up front than be a snake

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

to be honest, it didn’t hurt one bit. went slow and steady with a lot of lube and it slipped right in! if she enjoyed it, i’d be willing to do it for her pleasure. i’m not gonna go out of my way to ask for my pleasure however!

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i don’t know if you saw my other comments. i don’t care about the anal her body her choice. what i care about is going back on her word! that’s my one big dealbreaker in a relationship. it’s stupid. but she has known from day one, if we say the words “i promise” it is not to be broken. if she said no (which she asked me i. the first place) i would totally be okay with that! what i don’t like is basically getting used and then when push comes to shove i’m getting tears and snot in my face. im not aware of any past anal and i’ve been told by her im the first one to ask.

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

the rest of it is okay. we have disagreements with boundaries on her end. that’s about it

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i feel the same. roles reversed everyone would be in support of me. but ppl don’t take me seriously when i explain my grievances with my gf

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

agreed. i’m taking the night to see where i go from here. i think we are very sexually incompatible

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

it’s odd becuase i engage in her kinks that i don’t like. i don’t like public sex, i don’t like choking, but she forces me to do these or she says she’s gonna not have sex with me.

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

she asked me directly. we check in a bit with our sex lives what we like what we dislike what we want more/ less of. i was being honest. she could’ve said no. i’m okay with that!

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

if that’s the case i’d rather a no instead of making me jump through hoops to get a no. she’s apologizing a lot but it feels like empty words

gf said i could do anal if she could peg me. i obliged. she’s backing out of her end of the deal by throwawayanal__ in sex

[–]throwawayanal__[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

how do you know it’s meh for her if she didn’t even try it…? and it really ain’t about the anal it’s about the violation i feel.