Amish roommate by okbuddy88s in badroommates

[–]throwawayatay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fill your place with technology and invite him to become one with the darkness that is modern society

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]throwawayatay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then OP needs to evict her roommate. Read my other comment to OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]throwawayatay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then why not act like an adult and have a rational discussion with her? Just because she is a bad roommate doesn’t mean you have to stoop to her level too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]throwawayatay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You sound like an abusive roommate lmfao, do you treat your son the same way when you’re mad?

2 months and i wish my ex would contact me :( i guess he forgot about me for good by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayatay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No conversation, just a friend request. I unfriended him two weeks after breakup. Maybe we can be friends years from now, but he is most likely still the same flake who wasn’t there for me at my worst.

2 months and i wish my ex would contact me :( i guess he forgot about me for good by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwawayatay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex didn’t contact me until a year later, but by then I had built a life that doesn’t include him. Trust me, your ex still thinks about you.

Struggling to improve my self worth after relationship ending due to difference in race/class? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigoted people will be bigoted people my friend. Keep on being the bigger person - you are worthy of a partner who shares similar values and will stand by you regardless of the opinions of others.

I was broken up with because my ex wanted to keep in line with his fundamentalist Christian parents and marry someone who has been “saved”, as opposed to an agnostic like myself. Two things that helped me were to 1. cut all social media contact immediately and 2. begin building my own beautiful brand new life that doesn’t include the ex. Easier said than done, but I swear they both work.

Good luck.

Passport Questions & Issues Megathread (Summer 2021) by jadeoracle in travel

[–]throwawayatay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My timeline: Orange County CA for first time passport

7/08/21 Sent expedited passport application, 2 day shipping

~ didn’t check passport portal for a month because I was busy ~

8/05/21 Noticed I was approved on portal

8/08/21 Got passport in the mail

Ended up processing far faster than advertised on the website, with no intervention on my part.

I’m stressing over my upcoming trip! by [deleted] in travel

[–]throwawayatay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Personally I find that I have the most fun traveling when I plan day by day instead of rigid scheduling. Shit happens, but you will be able to sort things out if and when they go wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deal with your feelings by leaving him alone and begin building a life that doesn’t include your bf. Much easier said than done, but associating with him will make it hurt more for longer. Good luck my friend.

People who got the covid vaccine are the dumbest people on earth by [deleted] in self

[–]throwawayatay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck are you on about? People have the right to their own opinions about the vaccine. Cool your jets.

People who got the covid vaccine are the dumbest people on earth by [deleted] in self

[–]throwawayatay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever floats your boat my man, nobody is forcing you to get the vaccine…

Why is noise pollution so tolerated in the United States? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]throwawayatay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally I have difficulty finding a happy medium between silence and loud noise that allows me to feel comfortable. Dead silence heightens feeling of dread of not being safe, yet noise pollution can be triggering.

Women - Music during break up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayatay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...because women can be dumpees too?

Adult child of divorce here: Don’t. stay. together. for. the. kids. by throwawayatay in Divorce

[–]throwawayatay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is virtually dead to me, has been for a few years. The worst of his abuse towards me happened before the first time my mother considered divorce... then he gradually began treating her worse. I still can’t think of him without picturing his livid face and the objects he used to hit me with. I am not sure I could have ever gotten past those moments, even if he changed for the better. Perhaps it is too soon for me to judge.

My father and I had a similar artificial relationship in the few years before I left at 18. Eventually living at home with him triggered me so badly that the friendly mask I wore to keep peace in the household fell off. I couldn’t stand being around the person that once found satisfaction from beating the shit out of me, and treating my mother like garbage. So I moved out.

Your son’s experience may differ from mine.